"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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is this a good idea?

cablecow15

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ok me and this girl layed on her couch yesterday made out and i got some realy good kino in. she closed her eyes and every thing but the problem is i asked her out cause she knew i liked her. but shes like we cant i like to many people now im like wtf why does that matter u like me im here and im the one asking whats wrong then she just said we cant be friends with benifits then i said why not she said again we cant. wtf im thinking to just leave it and be her friend then mabe shell realize that she wants me where should i go now
did i do something wrong or is she just fd up in the head?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Both.

When she said no, just leave it at that and keep mackin' on the broad.

After that, continue on as if nothing happened.

Pick up some more broads. This one is now being put into your "FB" (f*ck buddy) category. She's no longer worthy of being your girlfriend.
 

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do u think i should come back to her later like a few monthes later my bday is coming up soon can i use that to get some stuff from her :) lol
 

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Messed up on your part, saying you like her which is a strong SOI, and I'm assuming she never SOIed that hard. Don't both saying to a girl "I like you" that just causes you to buy into her frame and whateva frame you had doesn't exist no more because you just gave her all your power.
 

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i was talking to her friend and she asked her if she liked me she said a litte
whats that mean do i have a chance
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Skilla_Staz said:
Pick up some more broads. This one is now being put into your "FB" (f*ck buddy) category. She's no longer worthy of being your girlfriend.
yep yep! I like the way this guy thinks! haha
 
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