"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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is this a good idea?

cablecow15

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ok me and this girl layed on her couch yesterday made out and i got some realy good kino in. she closed her eyes and every thing but the problem is i asked her out cause she knew i liked her. but shes like we cant i like to many people now im like wtf why does that matter u like me im here and im the one asking whats wrong then she just said we cant be friends with benifits then i said why not she said again we cant. wtf im thinking to just leave it and be her friend then mabe shell realize that she wants me where should i go now
did i do something wrong or is she just fd up in the head?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Both.

When she said no, just leave it at that and keep mackin' on the broad.

After that, continue on as if nothing happened.

Pick up some more broads. This one is now being put into your "FB" (f*ck buddy) category. She's no longer worthy of being your girlfriend.
 

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do u think i should come back to her later like a few monthes later my bday is coming up soon can i use that to get some stuff from her :) lol
 

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Messed up on your part, saying you like her which is a strong SOI, and I'm assuming she never SOIed that hard. Don't both saying to a girl "I like you" that just causes you to buy into her frame and whateva frame you had doesn't exist no more because you just gave her all your power.
 

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i was talking to her friend and she asked her if she liked me she said a litte
whats that mean do i have a chance
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Skilla_Staz said:
Pick up some more broads. This one is now being put into your "FB" (f*ck buddy) category. She's no longer worthy of being your girlfriend.
yep yep! I like the way this guy thinks! haha
 
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