"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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is this a good idea?

cablecow15

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ok me and this girl layed on her couch yesterday made out and i got some realy good kino in. she closed her eyes and every thing but the problem is i asked her out cause she knew i liked her. but shes like we cant i like to many people now im like wtf why does that matter u like me im here and im the one asking whats wrong then she just said we cant be friends with benifits then i said why not she said again we cant. wtf im thinking to just leave it and be her friend then mabe shell realize that she wants me where should i go now
did i do something wrong or is she just fd up in the head?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Both.

When she said no, just leave it at that and keep mackin' on the broad.

After that, continue on as if nothing happened.

Pick up some more broads. This one is now being put into your "FB" (f*ck buddy) category. She's no longer worthy of being your girlfriend.
 

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do u think i should come back to her later like a few monthes later my bday is coming up soon can i use that to get some stuff from her :) lol
 

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Messed up on your part, saying you like her which is a strong SOI, and I'm assuming she never SOIed that hard. Don't both saying to a girl "I like you" that just causes you to buy into her frame and whateva frame you had doesn't exist no more because you just gave her all your power.
 

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i was talking to her friend and she asked her if she liked me she said a litte
whats that mean do i have a chance
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Skilla_Staz said:
Pick up some more broads. This one is now being put into your "FB" (f*ck buddy) category. She's no longer worthy of being your girlfriend.
yep yep! I like the way this guy thinks! haha
 
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