"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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foxintehsnow

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Ok well i was at a school dance yeasterday night some chick i found attrative was sending me signals and **** so yha started grinding with her, as the night went on me and her were making out and **** :cool: but.. now its the next day and school and its a big deal with everyone, i got her email so should i bother contacting her or not because well yha i don't know if all this is bad or not.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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oakraiderz2

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What???
 

foxintehsnow

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oakraiderz2 said:
last night was my schools dance, i wen't pritty much to get out of my house and to have a good time and ended up hookin upwith some chick i guess and me and her were danceing and grinding and w.e, then we where slow danceing and after the song we made out :x and then pritty much spent the rest of the dance with her. so it was like 15mins tillthe dance was over me and her went out sider and made out for a bit again :X. then i got her number. but at school to everyone was making a big deal about me and her making out and think where dating yeat where not and um yha we sorta hang out in the same group and i dont wanna cause problems... well yha idk what imgonna do i was gonna ask her to to movies or something tomorrow but idk now, should i ask her out still or just move on?

sorry about the grammer/spelling i don't feel like spending alot of time on typeing this i gotta work in a hour and 30mins
 

oakraiderz2

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What do you think you should do? This is kinda a stupid question.
 

foxintehsnow

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oakraiderz2 said:
What do you think you should do? This is kinda a stupid question.
Well the main problem is the fact we hangout in the same group and i don't want to cause trouble with friends and what not.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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grinding ?s i want laadies oinions too

what should i do wen im grinding with a girl and i get a boner?? should i lean in and make it obvious or back off a little or wat please help!!
 
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