"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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foxintehsnow

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Ok well i was at a school dance yeasterday night some chick i found attrative was sending me signals and **** so yha started grinding with her, as the night went on me and her were making out and **** :cool: but.. now its the next day and school and its a big deal with everyone, i got her email so should i bother contacting her or not because well yha i don't know if all this is bad or not.
 

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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

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What???
 

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oakraiderz2 said:
last night was my schools dance, i wen't pritty much to get out of my house and to have a good time and ended up hookin upwith some chick i guess and me and her were danceing and grinding and w.e, then we where slow danceing and after the song we made out :x and then pritty much spent the rest of the dance with her. so it was like 15mins tillthe dance was over me and her went out sider and made out for a bit again :X. then i got her number. but at school to everyone was making a big deal about me and her making out and think where dating yeat where not and um yha we sorta hang out in the same group and i dont wanna cause problems... well yha idk what imgonna do i was gonna ask her to to movies or something tomorrow but idk now, should i ask her out still or just move on?

sorry about the grammer/spelling i don't feel like spending alot of time on typeing this i gotta work in a hour and 30mins
 

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What do you think you should do? This is kinda a stupid question.
 

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oakraiderz2 said:
What do you think you should do? This is kinda a stupid question.
Well the main problem is the fact we hangout in the same group and i don't want to cause trouble with friends and what not.
 

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You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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grinding ?s i want laadies oinions too

what should i do wen im grinding with a girl and i get a boner?? should i lean in and make it obvious or back off a little or wat please help!!
 
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