"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Is this a bad thing?

foxintehsnow

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Ok well i was at a school dance yeasterday night some chick i found attrative was sending me signals and **** so yha started grinding with her, as the night went on me and her were making out and **** :cool: but.. now its the next day and school and its a big deal with everyone, i got her email so should i bother contacting her or not because well yha i don't know if all this is bad or not.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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oakraiderz2

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What???
 

foxintehsnow

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oakraiderz2 said:
last night was my schools dance, i wen't pritty much to get out of my house and to have a good time and ended up hookin upwith some chick i guess and me and her were danceing and grinding and w.e, then we where slow danceing and after the song we made out :x and then pritty much spent the rest of the dance with her. so it was like 15mins tillthe dance was over me and her went out sider and made out for a bit again :X. then i got her number. but at school to everyone was making a big deal about me and her making out and think where dating yeat where not and um yha we sorta hang out in the same group and i dont wanna cause problems... well yha idk what imgonna do i was gonna ask her to to movies or something tomorrow but idk now, should i ask her out still or just move on?

sorry about the grammer/spelling i don't feel like spending alot of time on typeing this i gotta work in a hour and 30mins
 

oakraiderz2

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What do you think you should do? This is kinda a stupid question.
 

foxintehsnow

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oakraiderz2 said:
What do you think you should do? This is kinda a stupid question.
Well the main problem is the fact we hangout in the same group and i don't want to cause trouble with friends and what not.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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grinding ?s i want laadies oinions too

what should i do wen im grinding with a girl and i get a boner?? should i lean in and make it obvious or back off a little or wat please help!!
 
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