"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Is this a bad thing?

foxintehsnow

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Ok well i was at a school dance yeasterday night some chick i found attrative was sending me signals and **** so yha started grinding with her, as the night went on me and her were making out and **** :cool: but.. now its the next day and school and its a big deal with everyone, i got her email so should i bother contacting her or not because well yha i don't know if all this is bad or not.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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oakraiderz2

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What???
 

foxintehsnow

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oakraiderz2 said:
last night was my schools dance, i wen't pritty much to get out of my house and to have a good time and ended up hookin upwith some chick i guess and me and her were danceing and grinding and w.e, then we where slow danceing and after the song we made out :x and then pritty much spent the rest of the dance with her. so it was like 15mins tillthe dance was over me and her went out sider and made out for a bit again :X. then i got her number. but at school to everyone was making a big deal about me and her making out and think where dating yeat where not and um yha we sorta hang out in the same group and i dont wanna cause problems... well yha idk what imgonna do i was gonna ask her to to movies or something tomorrow but idk now, should i ask her out still or just move on?

sorry about the grammer/spelling i don't feel like spending alot of time on typeing this i gotta work in a hour and 30mins
 

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What do you think you should do? This is kinda a stupid question.
 

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oakraiderz2 said:
What do you think you should do? This is kinda a stupid question.
Well the main problem is the fact we hangout in the same group and i don't want to cause trouble with friends and what not.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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grinding ?s i want laadies oinions too

what should i do wen im grinding with a girl and i get a boner?? should i lean in and make it obvious or back off a little or wat please help!!
 
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