"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Is this a bad thing?

foxintehsnow

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Ok well i was at a school dance yeasterday night some chick i found attrative was sending me signals and **** so yha started grinding with her, as the night went on me and her were making out and **** :cool: but.. now its the next day and school and its a big deal with everyone, i got her email so should i bother contacting her or not because well yha i don't know if all this is bad or not.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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oakraiderz2

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What???
 

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oakraiderz2 said:
last night was my schools dance, i wen't pritty much to get out of my house and to have a good time and ended up hookin upwith some chick i guess and me and her were danceing and grinding and w.e, then we where slow danceing and after the song we made out :x and then pritty much spent the rest of the dance with her. so it was like 15mins tillthe dance was over me and her went out sider and made out for a bit again :X. then i got her number. but at school to everyone was making a big deal about me and her making out and think where dating yeat where not and um yha we sorta hang out in the same group and i dont wanna cause problems... well yha idk what imgonna do i was gonna ask her to to movies or something tomorrow but idk now, should i ask her out still or just move on?

sorry about the grammer/spelling i don't feel like spending alot of time on typeing this i gotta work in a hour and 30mins
 

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What do you think you should do? This is kinda a stupid question.
 

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oakraiderz2 said:
What do you think you should do? This is kinda a stupid question.
Well the main problem is the fact we hangout in the same group and i don't want to cause trouble with friends and what not.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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grinding ?s i want laadies oinions too

what should i do wen im grinding with a girl and i get a boner?? should i lean in and make it obvious or back off a little or wat please help!!
 
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