My girl brought this up awhileago, saying no 1 has ever made love to her only animal sex and she wants me to do so but honestly I dnt see the diff your sticiking it in her regardless I mean does it involve more passion? Candles? Music? Any help on distinguishing the two and how to adjust accordingly in the bedroom
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is there a difference between making love and having sex? if so how?
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For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
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more four play and passion. dont rush to put your **** in her. while your doing her use other parts of your brody to do things with her, like kissing and touching.
Maxtro
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I think that's an odd thing for your GF to say.
I believe that making love is having sex with somebody that you really care about. You have an emotional connection with that person. You don't mind cuddling afterwords.
Sex is just; wham, bam, thank you mam. And you're out the door. Well you don't really have to leave right after.
One thing for sure is that I've had sex with several women; I've never made love.
I wouldn't be surprised if it's actually your girl that is having trouble telling the difference. She may have had negative experiences with sex in the past.
I believe that making love is having sex with somebody that you really care about. You have an emotional connection with that person. You don't mind cuddling afterwords.
Sex is just; wham, bam, thank you mam. And you're out the door. Well you don't really have to leave right after.
One thing for sure is that I've had sex with several women; I've never made love.
I wouldn't be surprised if it's actually your girl that is having trouble telling the difference. She may have had negative experiences with sex in the past.
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No.
Whether you make love or **** like an animal, etcetera, it is all called sex. Whenever there is intercourse it is sex.
So "making love" is a form of sex just as well as a hardcore anal gangbang is a form of sex.
Whether you make love or **** like an animal, etcetera, it is all called sex. Whenever there is intercourse it is sex.
So "making love" is a form of sex just as well as a hardcore anal gangbang is a form of sex.
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She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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Jesus Christ, are you serious?FairShake said:
Bible_Belt
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is there a difference between making love and having sex?
It's the amount of effort you put into not getting jizz in her hair.
It's the amount of effort you put into not getting jizz in her hair.
Da Realist
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Making love is putting on a small production to stroke her ego, but let's be real: women stay with you longer when you're giving them screaming orgasms.
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Looks like a sh!t test to me. In her own words, she wants you to do something for her that none of the other guys she banged did before.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
