My girl brought this up awhileago, saying no 1 has ever made love to her only animal sex and she wants me to do so but honestly I dnt see the diff your sticiking it in her regardless I mean does it involve more passion? Candles? Music? Any help on distinguishing the two and how to adjust accordingly in the bedroom
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
is there a difference between making love and having sex? if so how?
- Thread starter dmatter
- Start date
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
thedude4242
Master Don Juan
- Joined
- Sep 7, 2009
- Messages
- 569
- Reaction score
- 4
more four play and passion. dont rush to put your **** in her. while your doing her use other parts of your brody to do things with her, like kissing and touching.
Maxtro
Master Don Juan
I think that's an odd thing for your GF to say.
I believe that making love is having sex with somebody that you really care about. You have an emotional connection with that person. You don't mind cuddling afterwords.
Sex is just; wham, bam, thank you mam. And you're out the door. Well you don't really have to leave right after.
One thing for sure is that I've had sex with several women; I've never made love.
I wouldn't be surprised if it's actually your girl that is having trouble telling the difference. She may have had negative experiences with sex in the past.
I believe that making love is having sex with somebody that you really care about. You have an emotional connection with that person. You don't mind cuddling afterwords.
Sex is just; wham, bam, thank you mam. And you're out the door. Well you don't really have to leave right after.
One thing for sure is that I've had sex with several women; I've never made love.
I wouldn't be surprised if it's actually your girl that is having trouble telling the difference. She may have had negative experiences with sex in the past.
Guoy Darko
Senior Don Juan
- Joined
- Jun 20, 2006
- Messages
- 297
- Reaction score
- 3
- Age
- 43
No.
Whether you make love or **** like an animal, etcetera, it is all called sex. Whenever there is intercourse it is sex.
So "making love" is a form of sex just as well as a hardcore anal gangbang is a form of sex.
Whether you make love or **** like an animal, etcetera, it is all called sex. Whenever there is intercourse it is sex.
So "making love" is a form of sex just as well as a hardcore anal gangbang is a form of sex.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Guoy Darko
Senior Don Juan
- Joined
- Jun 20, 2006
- Messages
- 297
- Reaction score
- 3
- Age
- 43
Jesus Christ, are you serious?FairShake said:
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
is there a difference between making love and having sex?
It's the amount of effort you put into not getting jizz in her hair.
It's the amount of effort you put into not getting jizz in her hair.
Da Realist
Master Don Juan
Making love is putting on a small production to stroke her ego, but let's be real: women stay with you longer when you're giving them screaming orgasms.
Stagger Lee
Master Don Juan
- Joined
- Sep 7, 2009
- Messages
- 2,159
- Reaction score
- 138
Looks like a sh!t test to me. In her own words, she wants you to do something for her that none of the other guys she banged did before.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
