My girl brought this up awhileago, saying no 1 has ever made love to her only animal sex and she wants me to do so but honestly I dnt see the diff your sticiking it in her regardless I mean does it involve more passion? Candles? Music? Any help on distinguishing the two and how to adjust accordingly in the bedroom
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
is there a difference between making love and having sex? if so how?
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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more four play and passion. dont rush to put your **** in her. while your doing her use other parts of your brody to do things with her, like kissing and touching.
Maxtro
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I think that's an odd thing for your GF to say.
I believe that making love is having sex with somebody that you really care about. You have an emotional connection with that person. You don't mind cuddling afterwords.
Sex is just; wham, bam, thank you mam. And you're out the door. Well you don't really have to leave right after.
One thing for sure is that I've had sex with several women; I've never made love.
I wouldn't be surprised if it's actually your girl that is having trouble telling the difference. She may have had negative experiences with sex in the past.
I believe that making love is having sex with somebody that you really care about. You have an emotional connection with that person. You don't mind cuddling afterwords.
Sex is just; wham, bam, thank you mam. And you're out the door. Well you don't really have to leave right after.
One thing for sure is that I've had sex with several women; I've never made love.
I wouldn't be surprised if it's actually your girl that is having trouble telling the difference. She may have had negative experiences with sex in the past.
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No.
Whether you make love or **** like an animal, etcetera, it is all called sex. Whenever there is intercourse it is sex.
So "making love" is a form of sex just as well as a hardcore anal gangbang is a form of sex.
Whether you make love or **** like an animal, etcetera, it is all called sex. Whenever there is intercourse it is sex.
So "making love" is a form of sex just as well as a hardcore anal gangbang is a form of sex.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
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Jesus Christ, are you serious?FairShake said:
Bible_Belt
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is there a difference between making love and having sex?
It's the amount of effort you put into not getting jizz in her hair.
It's the amount of effort you put into not getting jizz in her hair.
Da Realist
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Making love is putting on a small production to stroke her ego, but let's be real: women stay with you longer when you're giving them screaming orgasms.
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Looks like a sh!t test to me. In her own words, she wants you to do something for her that none of the other guys she banged did before.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
