My girl brought this up awhileago, saying no 1 has ever made love to her only animal sex and she wants me to do so but honestly I dnt see the diff your sticiking it in her regardless I mean does it involve more passion? Candles? Music? Any help on distinguishing the two and how to adjust accordingly in the bedroom
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
is there a difference between making love and having sex? if so how?
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
thedude4242
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more four play and passion. dont rush to put your **** in her. while your doing her use other parts of your brody to do things with her, like kissing and touching.
Maxtro
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I think that's an odd thing for your GF to say.
I believe that making love is having sex with somebody that you really care about. You have an emotional connection with that person. You don't mind cuddling afterwords.
Sex is just; wham, bam, thank you mam. And you're out the door. Well you don't really have to leave right after.
One thing for sure is that I've had sex with several women; I've never made love.
I wouldn't be surprised if it's actually your girl that is having trouble telling the difference. She may have had negative experiences with sex in the past.
I believe that making love is having sex with somebody that you really care about. You have an emotional connection with that person. You don't mind cuddling afterwords.
Sex is just; wham, bam, thank you mam. And you're out the door. Well you don't really have to leave right after.
One thing for sure is that I've had sex with several women; I've never made love.
I wouldn't be surprised if it's actually your girl that is having trouble telling the difference. She may have had negative experiences with sex in the past.
Guoy Darko
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No.
Whether you make love or **** like an animal, etcetera, it is all called sex. Whenever there is intercourse it is sex.
So "making love" is a form of sex just as well as a hardcore anal gangbang is a form of sex.
Whether you make love or **** like an animal, etcetera, it is all called sex. Whenever there is intercourse it is sex.
So "making love" is a form of sex just as well as a hardcore anal gangbang is a form of sex.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Guoy Darko
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Jesus Christ, are you serious?FairShake said:
Bible_Belt
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is there a difference between making love and having sex?
It's the amount of effort you put into not getting jizz in her hair.
It's the amount of effort you put into not getting jizz in her hair.
Da Realist
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Making love is putting on a small production to stroke her ego, but let's be real: women stay with you longer when you're giving them screaming orgasms.
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Looks like a sh!t test to me. In her own words, she wants you to do something for her that none of the other guys she banged did before.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
