My girl brought this up awhileago, saying no 1 has ever made love to her only animal sex and she wants me to do so but honestly I dnt see the diff your sticiking it in her regardless I mean does it involve more passion? Candles? Music? Any help on distinguishing the two and how to adjust accordingly in the bedroom
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is there a difference between making love and having sex? if so how?
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You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
thedude4242
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more four play and passion. dont rush to put your **** in her. while your doing her use other parts of your brody to do things with her, like kissing and touching.
Maxtro
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I think that's an odd thing for your GF to say.
I believe that making love is having sex with somebody that you really care about. You have an emotional connection with that person. You don't mind cuddling afterwords.
Sex is just; wham, bam, thank you mam. And you're out the door. Well you don't really have to leave right after.
One thing for sure is that I've had sex with several women; I've never made love.
I wouldn't be surprised if it's actually your girl that is having trouble telling the difference. She may have had negative experiences with sex in the past.
I believe that making love is having sex with somebody that you really care about. You have an emotional connection with that person. You don't mind cuddling afterwords.
Sex is just; wham, bam, thank you mam. And you're out the door. Well you don't really have to leave right after.
One thing for sure is that I've had sex with several women; I've never made love.
I wouldn't be surprised if it's actually your girl that is having trouble telling the difference. She may have had negative experiences with sex in the past.
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No.
Whether you make love or **** like an animal, etcetera, it is all called sex. Whenever there is intercourse it is sex.
So "making love" is a form of sex just as well as a hardcore anal gangbang is a form of sex.
Whether you make love or **** like an animal, etcetera, it is all called sex. Whenever there is intercourse it is sex.
So "making love" is a form of sex just as well as a hardcore anal gangbang is a form of sex.
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You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
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Jesus Christ, are you serious?FairShake said:
Bible_Belt
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is there a difference between making love and having sex?
It's the amount of effort you put into not getting jizz in her hair.
It's the amount of effort you put into not getting jizz in her hair.
Da Realist
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Making love is putting on a small production to stroke her ego, but let's be real: women stay with you longer when you're giving them screaming orgasms.
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Looks like a sh!t test to me. In her own words, she wants you to do something for her that none of the other guys she banged did before.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
