Is she still interested or nah?

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Bro, stop it. You are wasting your time. You lost her when you bought her chocolates. We have all been there, bought a girl roses three weeks in and boom she vanished. Thank god those blue pill days are over.
Ok, just you know, thought it'd be cool to show some sympathy as she had someone in the hospital
 

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It’s hard to say in this day and age. I’ve done some super beta stuff in a slip of the moment and thought I had totally ran a girl off, only for her to come back a month later and tell me she wasn’t over her ex or was seeing someone else and things didn’t workout. I made the most of my second chance and stopped trying to be her boyfriend and just be a fun guy that she sleeps with. That ended up working in my favor and when I started acting that way she went from hanging out once a week to me seeing her 4 times in a week sometimes. The moment I stopped acting like I wanted to be the boyfriend, the moment she started treating me like I WAS the boyfriend.
 

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It’s hard to say in this day and age. I’ve done some super beta stuff in a slip of the moment and thought I had totally ran a girl off, only for her to come back a month later and tell me she wasn’t over her ex or was seeing someone else and things didn’t workout. I made the most of my second chance and stopped trying to be her boyfriend and just be a fun guy that she sleeps with. That ended up working in my favor and when I started acting that way she went from hanging out once a week to me seeing her 4 times in a week sometimes. The moment I stopped acting like I wanted to be the boyfriend, the moment she started treating me like I WAS the boyfriend.
Thanks bro, we'll, am still tryna learn, maybe I slipped up bad by leaving a voice mail
 

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Sometimes you just need to go through things, to learn stuff.
 

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Thanks for your info, but not errything is about sex yo. Even if I am, what does it matter.
Everything isnt sex. But a woman interested will be giving you her body. She will also open doors and make things easier for you.
 

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I get what your saying but basically I went wrong, it was just a one time thing buying her some chocolates, I'm not the kinda guy that goes chasing down women as if am desperate, I met only 1 friend k and tbh, I just ain't sure if I should message her or not,
She doesnt know this. All she knows is you did do this with her so in her mind you ARE that guy.
 

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Thanks for your info, but not errything is about sex yo. Even if I am, what does it matter.
Haha Haha. Wow...you might ever beyond help.
 

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K, I get that, it's not that I chase em cause I ain't got time for games. I tried talking to multiple women once and it was ok but, I just ain't like the idea. So is it that you're saying I should talk to more women instead of just 1?
SPINNING PLATES IS LIKE INVESTING MONEY

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Oneitis rearing its ugly subtle head.

I'm convinced your viewing her posts then calling her stems from your desire to "win her over." It has nothing to do with sympathy. I'm not convinced that you care that her sister is in the hospital, which is not a bad thing. What IS bad in my opinion is your attempt to gain her approval/favor by feigning interest in her sick sister.

This move likely irritated her even more.
 

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I ain't know the answer, if I did I wouldn't be here bro.
Respectfully disagree.

Having read so many posts like yours over the years, I'm convinced that the majority of guys posting stuff like this actually DO know the answer (THINK they know), but they post anyway, hoping that SS members will APPROVE or VALIDATE.

Newbies simply ignore /feign confusion toward members who advise the "wrong answer" (i.e. answers that you don't want to hear).
 
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Haha Haha. Wow...you might ever beyond help.
Thanks, for letting me know that errything does revolve round that, I screw up I get it, I called and made a mistake, I don't need you judging me for that, just need advice, it's as simple as that.
 

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Respectfully disagree.

Having read so many posts like yours over the years, I'm convinced that the majority of guys posting stuff like this actually DO know the answer (THINK they know), but they post anyway, hoping that SS members will APPROVE or VALIDATE.

Newbies simply ignore /feign confusion toward members who advise the "wrong answer" (i.e. answers that you don't want to hear).
Just talk straight, and stop with all em riddles
 

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I really do appreciate yall advice but it it that bad, to simply do good to someone, I'm done trying to prove myself to women, like what sense does it make, they ain't all that, and as yall said, just move on and don't keep all eggs in one basket. Hope yall get what am saying. I'm really I made the call yesterday but, thought it was something right to do at the moment.
 

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Ok guys.. So I met this girl and we click well at first. We hung out a bit, she even introduced me to her best friend and we would go out occasionally. We would be in contact most of the week, sometimes I would message or call her first and sometimes she would do the same. Here's the deal, I had went out and bought her some chocolates, and we met up the next evening and I gave to her, we hugged and we messaged the same night. We had also planned to go out skating the next day. On the next day, all I got was a good morning which I replied to, then after that nothing from her.. She went blank.. I waited until a few days(2 days) then I messaged her to see if she was OK but still got no respond... So I haven't messaged her since and now it's been basically gonna be 2 weeks tomorrow.. Is there something wrong that I did or is she just not interested no more, I've always been over interested In past relationships but I've cooled down now and have been chilled for a few years now, so am not sure if I should reply or not reply.

Do nothing now. If she is interested she will reach out.

Move forward
 

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Just let the water flow..What is done is done .;) move forward learn from experience . Have a new day ahead stay positive...
 
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