"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Is She Reaching Out To Me Or Not?

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BackInTheGame78 said:
At some point she is wondering "what am I getting out of this?". You can only take for so long from a person without giving them anything in return.

You aren't returning the oral...
You aren't banging her to get her off that way...
You aren't doing anything to relieve her sexual tension...

OP, if the shoe was on the other foot, would you consistently meet up with a woman who you ate out but then she never gave you a BJ? After a while you would probably get tired of it right?
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I fingered her everytime.. And played with her ****.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Romanemp22 said:
Exactly, she got bored of it and his lack of action towards her cold her off.
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Nah that do
Bigpapa said:
To be frank for me it is a little bit difficult to understand how come they did not had sex ... usually when you get a bj and you like the women you feel the urge to go inside her ( especially when you never been inside her )
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It's very simple.. We have meet meeting in a quiet part of our company on the 5th floor.. It's relatively quiet.. However it's not possible to have full on sex up there, just incase someone turns up.

We have managed to get some oral etc done.. But not full sex..

The only way to have full sex, was for her to come to my house, which hasn't been possible recently because she don't have a sitter.
 
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My question is simple.

After 10 days of no contact.. Zero text messages back and forth.

She started a conversation at work with me.. Would you class that as her reaching out?
 
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Why don't you do what YOU want to do. How would we know what this chick is thinking?

If you want to text......text her. Set up her coming to your place. Expect her to get stuck with her kids but at least you'll show some interest and keep getting bjs at work.

You don't text a woman for 10 days who is willing to suck you off at work....then you wonder why she doesn't seem as interested?
Come on man.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Glassguy said:
Why don't you do what YOU want to do. How would we know what this chick is thinking?

If you want to text......text her. Set up her coming to your place. Expect her to get stuck with her kids but at least you'll show some interest and keep getting bjs at work.

You don't text a woman for 10 days who is willing to suck you off at work....then you wonder why she doesn't seem as interested?
Come on man.
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