"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Is She Reaching Out To Me Or Not?

soulforge

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At some point she is wondering "what am I getting out of this?". You can only take for so long from a person without giving them anything in return.

You aren't returning the oral...
You aren't banging her to get her off that way...
You aren't doing anything to relieve her sexual tension...

OP, if the shoe was on the other foot, would you consistently meet up with a woman who you ate out but then she never gave you a BJ? After a while you would probably get tired of it right?
I fingered her everytime.. And played with her ****.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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soulforge

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Exactly, she got bored of it and his lack of action towards her cold her off.
Nah that do
To be frank for me it is a little bit difficult to understand how come they did not had sex ... usually when you get a bj and you like the women you feel the urge to go inside her ( especially when you never been inside her )

It's very simple.. We have meet meeting in a quiet part of our company on the 5th floor.. It's relatively quiet.. However it's not possible to have full on sex up there, just incase someone turns up.

We have managed to get some oral etc done.. But not full sex..

The only way to have full sex, was for her to come to my house, which hasn't been possible recently because she don't have a sitter.
 

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My question is simple.

After 10 days of no contact.. Zero text messages back and forth.

She started a conversation at work with me.. Would you class that as her reaching out?
 

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Why don't you do what YOU want to do. How would we know what this chick is thinking?

If you want to text......text her. Set up her coming to your place. Expect her to get stuck with her kids but at least you'll show some interest and keep getting bjs at work.

You don't text a woman for 10 days who is willing to suck you off at work....then you wonder why she doesn't seem as interested?
Come on man.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Why don't you do what YOU want to do. How would we know what this chick is thinking?

If you want to text......text her. Set up her coming to your place. Expect her to get stuck with her kids but at least you'll show some interest and keep getting bjs at work.

You don't text a woman for 10 days who is willing to suck you off at work....then you wonder why she doesn't seem as interested?
Come on man.
 
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