"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Female lawyers are usually not very feminine. They are also rarely seen in real life due to working too much. I've only approached two lifetime. I was at a private event once in a bar and the woman with an amazing tan who looked feminine walked in. She was a lawyer. I couldn't believe it. In her 30s. I once approached a woman in an Oakland Raiders t-shirt in the gym who turned out to be a lawyer. I also didn't expect that. The Raiders t-shirt gave me an easy opener.



Maybe. Maybe not. It's been a bad mating environment for a while. A 35 year old today was born in 1985. Came of age right after 9/11. If they went to college, they were graduating into a shiitstorm of a recession. Lots of bad stuff.
Bad for relationships for 15 straight years, not sure it's going to know how to do it, nor care, set in their ways and bad habits.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Functioning dicck is more important than financially secure. Most women can take care of their own financial needs now.
The functioning dik question is very situation-dependent. I am sure there are a lot of men that could get it up for a 60 y.o. chick's 18 y.o. granddaughter but not for granny. :eek: I remember a then 54 y.o. friend of mine who was dating a 16 y.o. :eek: :eek: :eek: :eek:, and he said that with her he didn't need to take Viagra like he had had to with gals of his vintage. :cool:
 

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The functioning dik question is very situation-dependent. I am sure there are a lot of men that could get it up for a 60 y.o. chick's 18 y.o. granddaughter than the granny. I remember a then 54 y.o. friend of mine who was dating a 16 y.o. :eek: :eek: :eek: :eek:, and he said that he with her, he didn't need to take Viagra like he used to with gals of his vintage. :cool:
Instant ED cure. Had always been a sexy and submissive lady.
 

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Bad for relationships for 15 straight years, not sure it's going to know how to do it, nor care, set in their ways and bad habits.
If you compare a 30-35 year old woman who has a divorce to her name vs. a never married 30-35 year old (assuming both are childless), the never married one is often the better bet. No credit is better than bad credit. I've been on dates with both. A childless divorcee isn't a deal breaker for me, but it is a bad sign. You're absolutely correct that both would generally have a bad relationship history.

The functioning dik question is very situation-dependent. I am sure there are a lot of men that could get it up for a 60 y.o. chick's 18 y.o. granddaughter but not for granny. :eek: I remember a then 54 y.o. friend of mine who was dating a 16 y.o. :eek: :eek: :eek: :eek:, and he said that with her he didn't need to take Viagra like he had had to with gals of his vintage. :cool:
I think it can be. While I think it is possible to get sexually excited over a 40 something woman, I would find it difficult to say the same thing about women 50+. I feel the same way at 37 about this idea as I felt at either 20, 25, or 30.

There's a reason that 50 year old men as turned on by 21 year old women as 21 year old men are turned on by 21 year old women.
 

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If you compare a 30-35 year old woman who has a divorce to her name vs. a never married 30-35 year old (assuming both are childless), the never married one is often the better bet. No credit is better than bad credit. I've been on dates with both. A childless divorcee isn't a deal breaker for me, but it is a bad sign. You're absolutely correct that both would generally have a bad relationship history.



I think it can be. While I think it is possible to get sexually excited over a 40 something woman, I would find it difficult to say the same thing about women 50+. I feel the same way at 37 about this idea as I felt at either 20, 25, or 30.

There's a reason that 50 year old men as turned on by 21 year old women as 21 year old men are turned on by 21 year old women.
Not a relationship girl has the bad credit. Not the one that had a long term relationship that ended. So if you want to know her, understand how she acts in a relationship.

I know the bullcrap about the never a relationship one just never found "the one" and she's supposedly a catch because she's never been married or in a real relationship. Reality is for whatever reason she never can commit and is doing what she likes to do. Staying in motion never connecting so she's gonna suck for relationships. She's not good at relationships and stopped trying.
 
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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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