Is never having been married a problem?

[darksprezzatura]

No...if they ask just tell them "No, I'm smart" and laugh

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[CoandaEffect]

A lot of people will think it's weird that you've never been married. They think either you don't have the personal or bedroom skills to have a long term relationship. More often than not, they are correct to think that so it is an uphill battle for the normal/sane ones.

That said you can probably overcome it if you have to.

I agree with you. I think many see it as a red flag and like all red flags it isn’t necessarily a show stopper as long they see quality in other areas.

 

[CoandaEffect]

I vomited in my mouth. Geez.. So Suave is for game on younger ladies, not grannies.

@CoandaEffect - This is disgusting - https://duckduckgo.com/?q=old+granny+sex&t=ffab&iax=images&ia=images

If that is what you like, that's fine, but this is the wrong forum for you.

This thread took a turn in an unexpected direction after this comment.

Just to be clear I‘m not chasing ‘grannies’. My comment was referring to a 62 year old lady that I dated recently. She had the body and energy of a 40 year old. That chick turned heads.

Anyway this is not the topic of the thread, so I will not be making any further comments on it.

 

[RickTheToad]

The typical 50 or 55 year old single male isn't using that website. It is a way that older men get substantially younger women.



A 55 year old typically has 35-40 years of experience in dating. That's enough time to put together multiple 2-5 year long relationships. Having some of those types of relationships to your name will look acceptable.

I would think many different types of dudes use that site.

 

[RickTheToad]

Depends upon if they take care of their fitness. This lady here is 77 : https://www.quora.com/profile/Linda-Friedlander-1

She's kinda stunning for even mid 50's, but she's fvcking 77.

No my type, but that's cool. Others may like that.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

No my type, but that's cool. Others may like that.

Your type in that fitness level would work out fine. It just illustrated that even with age they can have a good physical phisod.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Your type in that fitness level would work out fine. It just illustrated that even with age they can have a good physical phisod.

I saw a few other "older" ones like that... There's a few benefits a "older" babe can have, that really don't get discussed. Now if she took care of her body, and it looked 10-20yrs younger or even more and was a pleasant lady, that there would be a good situation to have.

 

[BadBoy89]

A lot of people will think it's weird that you've never been married. They think either you don't have the personal or bedroom skills to have a long term relationship. More often than not, they are correct to think that so it is an uphill battle for the normal/sane ones.

Or they could think the man doesn’t want to be abused, cheated, raped or killed in case the woman is not happy.

 

[Kotaix]

Second hand knowledge here: An old boss of mine married for the first time at 42. His wife's friends apparently brought into question his moral integrity for not having been married before at that age. He was also a pretty abrasive guy so that might have been a factor in them not liking him.

But in any case, you should be honest. To lie for the sake of attracting pvssy is to betray yourself. If she doesn't like the fact that you haven't been married then that's her problem, not yours. A high interest woman won't care.

 

[CoandaEffect]

.... But in any case, you should be honest. To lie for the sake of attracting pvssy is to betray yourself. If she doesn't like the fact that you haven't been married then that's her problem, not yours. A high interest woman won't care.

Yes, I agree 100%.

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

I’m 55, never been married and no kids. Women always inquire about those two things. I’m honest, so I always say I’ve never been married and I have no kids that I know of (the ”none that I know of” line always gets a laugh).

When you tell a women you’ve never been married is she likely to see this as a fault? Does she think, ”what’s wrong with this guy?” I‘ve read advise before now that it is best to lie and say you are divorced. That seems wrong to me, she will find out eventually and then she will see you as a liar (which you would be!).

Even worse, you tell her you’ve never been married and she says “why not?”, what do you say then?

These talks are futile. I don't do it. I esculate. I tell her to take her clothes off. Submit or **** off.

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

Second hand knowledge here: An old boss of mine married for the first time at 42. His wife's friends apparently brought into question his moral integrity for not having been married before at that age. He was also a pretty abrasive guy so that might have been a factor in them not liking him.

But in any case, you should be honest. To lie for the sake of attracting pvssy is to betray yourself. If she doesn't like the fact that you haven't been married then that's her problem, not yours. A high interest woman won't care.

Lololol i. Am not in that place in my life but when I get there, I will let you know @ BAEEEEEEES.

Little do they know, I wont marry now or ever but she doesn't néed to know.

Trolling as a hobby.

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

Yes, I agree 100%.

Have you seen the divorce stat by gender? I don't give a flying ****kkk. Out for #1.

Fellas are not savage enough. Leaving poon on the tables. Women are free to **** off, *****, divorce rape, and men need to keep their word?

Pfffff. No dice. 8 am charging up my troll cannon.

The only thing I am honest with is myself. I owe nothing to randos.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Or they could think the man doesn’t want to be abused, cheated, raped or killed in case the woman is not happy.

That sounds like the exact opposite of a patriarchy...

 

[FairShake]

Or they could think the man doesn’t want to be abused, cheated, raped or killed in case the woman is not happy.

They could but they won't even if it is true. It is the adult equivalent of "Yeah I have a girlfriend. She goes to another school. You wouldn't know her." If anything saying you're worried about being raped or killed if a woman isn't happy is an even bigger turn off.

 

[Who Dares Win]

There’s plenty of women in there 60s that still enjoy sex, and some of them are hot and good at it!

I dont even wanna picture that in my head let alone experiencing in reality.

Holy fvck I dont even wanna see naked most women my age...

 

[SW15]

There's still a carryover among some late 20s or 30+ women in thinking that divorced men are a better bet than never married men for long term relationships because having a marriage to their names shows they can commit. I always thought that line of thinking was silly. In the credit world, no credit (never married) is better than bad credit (a divorce).

This line of thinking is become outdated due to the fact that Millennials aren't marrying as much. There are now plenty of 35 year old women who've never married.

 

[Travel memoir21]

There's still a carryover among some late 20s or 30+ women in thinking that divorced men are a better bet than never married men for long term relationships because having a marriage to their names shows they can commit. I always thought that line of thinking was silly. In the credit world, no credit (never married) is better than bad credit (a divorce).

This line of thinking is become outdated due to the fact that Millennials aren't marrying as much. There are now plenty of 35 year old women who've never married.

My sister who happens to be a lawyer, in her mid 30’s is not married yet. She’s very feminine but at the same time, very modern in her ideals. She likes to meditate, watch/read a lot of self help books/videos on YouTube .

Like I said....very modern. I don’t see her settling down til her 40s.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

There's still a carryover among some late 20s or 30+ women in thinking that divorced men are a better bet than never married men for long term relationships because having a marriage to their names shows they can commit. I always thought that line of thinking was silly. In the credit world, no credit (never married) is better than bad credit (a divorce).

This line of thinking is become outdated due to the fact that Millennials aren't marrying as much. There are now plenty of 35 year old women who've never married.

Would those 35's unmarrieds be "good at relationships"?

 

[SW15]

My sister who happens to be a lawyer, in her mid 30’s is not married yet. She’s very feminine but at the same time, very modern in her ideals. She likes to meditate, watch/read a lot of self help books/videos on YouTube .

Like I said....very modern. I don’t see her settling down til her 40s.

Female lawyers are usually not very feminine. They are also rarely seen in real life due to working too much. I've only approached two lifetime. I was at a private event once in a bar and the woman with an amazing tan who looked feminine walked in. She was a lawyer. I couldn't believe it. In her 30s. I once approached a woman in an Oakland Raiders t-shirt in the gym who turned out to be a lawyer. I also didn't expect that. The Raiders t-shirt gave me an easy opener.

Would those 35's unmarrieds be "good at relationships"?

Maybe. Maybe not. It's been a bad mating environment for a while. A 35 year old today was born in 1985. Came of age right after 9/11. If they went to college, they were graduating into a shiitstorm of a recession. Lots of bad stuff.