"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Is my professor attracted to me?

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Lol no. Unless he is a pilot XP. Here's a random thing to confirm I am indeed a pilot: blockage of pitot static system causes a false indication of IAS due to Bernoulli's principle it is based upon: as velocity increases, static pressure decreases.

By the way, I did say "Nice shirt" and all he said was a plain "thanks". I think it was maybe too subtle or something. Will it creep you guys out if a girl said: you're cute. I wish guys around my age these days are more like you.

And no, I AM SO HAPPY!No wedding ring. Never mentioned a girlfriend let alone a woman. Always mentioned about his mates and friends.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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There is no breach of academic misconduct since the course would then be finished. Do I ask him if he could help me with my commercial pilot's license stuff after the class and talk over it over coffee?
 

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First, we need more pics to correctly asses the situation at hand.

OP yes he is interested in you.

Just keep gently flirting with him and when class is over, ask him out if he doesn't ask you out first.
 

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Pics? What sort? His pics or mine?

Secondly I know that eye contact between student and professors are normal during a presentation, but 93 times?
 

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Well, just an update. He looked at me 100+ times today and when he wasn't explaining things to the class, he was looking at me the whole time. No matter where he walked his body was pointing towards my direction. And his pupils were dilated.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Well, just an update. He looked at me 100+ times today and when he wasn't explaining things to the class, he was looking at me the whole time. No matter where he walked his body was pointing towards my direction. And his pupils were dilated.
Maybe you were imagining it?
 

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Nope. Dead sure I was conscious. Nope. He looked at me 100 + (I did a tally) times in a two hour period. I played a little game with him. I would look at the board and out of my peripheral, I caught him. He lingered for a few seconds and looked away. I caught him so many times yet he kept making eye contact with me. He was looking me directly in the eyes. So if he was phasing out and saw me looking at him, assuming if he was not interested, he would not continuing giving eye contact to show he's not interested. He didn't do that.

I also moved really close to him. He did not Move away.
 

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MsAviator said:
Pics? What sort? His pics or mine?

Secondly I know that eye contact between student and professors are normal during a presentation, but 93 times?
Yours.
 

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What do you mean by "yours"?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Ya and my pic is my avatar.
 

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Ya and my pic is my avatar.

What is so special about you for him to take an interest? Are you an engineer student or something where you are the only female?
 

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What is so special about you for him to take an interest? Are you an engineer student or something where you are the only female?
She's asian, so she has a tight hoo-ha

MsAviator: do what Mauser96 said, then I want your next sosuave thread to be titled "My professor got me pregnant".
 

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Pregnant? My career is important to me. Obviously if I am pregnant, I will never gain my flying hours up. Aviation is a male dominated industry, and only a small percentage is women. I am considered attractive by many and I am a distinction student. There aren't much girls in the class either. Only 6 and 50 guys.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Pregnant? My career is important to me. Obviously if I am pregnant, I will never gain my flying hours up. Aviation is a male dominated industry, and only a small percentage is women. I am considered attractive by many and I am a distinction student. There aren't much girls in the class either. Only 6 and 50 guys.

Professor aside, are you seeing any guys romantically at the moment?
 

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Yes a couple. Trying to keep the options open.
 

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I don't want to get pregnant :(
 

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I can't. We wear uniforms and that includes slacks, ties and epaulettes. No skirts allowed.
 

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For someone your age and experience, that was very helpful. I am not stupid. My IQ is 153 by Mensa testing and my professors think of me intellectually. I am a career driven woman and I have completed multivariate calculus at the age of 17 at university. I wish people weren't so rude and ASSume that I'm a troll.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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