"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Is my professor attracted to me?

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Lol no. Unless he is a pilot XP. Here's a random thing to confirm I am indeed a pilot: blockage of pitot static system causes a false indication of IAS due to Bernoulli's principle it is based upon: as velocity increases, static pressure decreases.

By the way, I did say "Nice shirt" and all he said was a plain "thanks". I think it was maybe too subtle or something. Will it creep you guys out if a girl said: you're cute. I wish guys around my age these days are more like you.

And no, I AM SO HAPPY!No wedding ring. Never mentioned a girlfriend let alone a woman. Always mentioned about his mates and friends.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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There is no breach of academic misconduct since the course would then be finished. Do I ask him if he could help me with my commercial pilot's license stuff after the class and talk over it over coffee?
 

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First, we need more pics to correctly asses the situation at hand.

OP yes he is interested in you.

Just keep gently flirting with him and when class is over, ask him out if he doesn't ask you out first.
 

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Pics? What sort? His pics or mine?

Secondly I know that eye contact between student and professors are normal during a presentation, but 93 times?
 

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Well, just an update. He looked at me 100+ times today and when he wasn't explaining things to the class, he was looking at me the whole time. No matter where he walked his body was pointing towards my direction. And his pupils were dilated.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Well, just an update. He looked at me 100+ times today and when he wasn't explaining things to the class, he was looking at me the whole time. No matter where he walked his body was pointing towards my direction. And his pupils were dilated.
Maybe you were imagining it?
 

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Nope. Dead sure I was conscious. Nope. He looked at me 100 + (I did a tally) times in a two hour period. I played a little game with him. I would look at the board and out of my peripheral, I caught him. He lingered for a few seconds and looked away. I caught him so many times yet he kept making eye contact with me. He was looking me directly in the eyes. So if he was phasing out and saw me looking at him, assuming if he was not interested, he would not continuing giving eye contact to show he's not interested. He didn't do that.

I also moved really close to him. He did not Move away.
 

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MsAviator said:
Pics? What sort? His pics or mine?

Secondly I know that eye contact between student and professors are normal during a presentation, but 93 times?
Yours.
 

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What do you mean by "yours"?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Ya and my pic is my avatar.
 

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Ya and my pic is my avatar.

What is so special about you for him to take an interest? Are you an engineer student or something where you are the only female?
 

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What is so special about you for him to take an interest? Are you an engineer student or something where you are the only female?
She's asian, so she has a tight hoo-ha

MsAviator: do what Mauser96 said, then I want your next sosuave thread to be titled "My professor got me pregnant".
 

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Pregnant? My career is important to me. Obviously if I am pregnant, I will never gain my flying hours up. Aviation is a male dominated industry, and only a small percentage is women. I am considered attractive by many and I am a distinction student. There aren't much girls in the class either. Only 6 and 50 guys.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Pregnant? My career is important to me. Obviously if I am pregnant, I will never gain my flying hours up. Aviation is a male dominated industry, and only a small percentage is women. I am considered attractive by many and I am a distinction student. There aren't much girls in the class either. Only 6 and 50 guys.

Professor aside, are you seeing any guys romantically at the moment?
 

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Yes a couple. Trying to keep the options open.
 

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I don't want to get pregnant :(
 

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I can't. We wear uniforms and that includes slacks, ties and epaulettes. No skirts allowed.
 

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For someone your age and experience, that was very helpful. I am not stupid. My IQ is 153 by Mensa testing and my professors think of me intellectually. I am a career driven woman and I have completed multivariate calculus at the age of 17 at university. I wish people weren't so rude and ASSume that I'm a troll.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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