"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Is my professor attracted to me?

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Lol no. Unless he is a pilot XP. Here's a random thing to confirm I am indeed a pilot: blockage of pitot static system causes a false indication of IAS due to Bernoulli's principle it is based upon: as velocity increases, static pressure decreases.

By the way, I did say "Nice shirt" and all he said was a plain "thanks". I think it was maybe too subtle or something. Will it creep you guys out if a girl said: you're cute. I wish guys around my age these days are more like you.

And no, I AM SO HAPPY!No wedding ring. Never mentioned a girlfriend let alone a woman. Always mentioned about his mates and friends.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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There is no breach of academic misconduct since the course would then be finished. Do I ask him if he could help me with my commercial pilot's license stuff after the class and talk over it over coffee?
 

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First, we need more pics to correctly asses the situation at hand.

OP yes he is interested in you.

Just keep gently flirting with him and when class is over, ask him out if he doesn't ask you out first.
 

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Pics? What sort? His pics or mine?

Secondly I know that eye contact between student and professors are normal during a presentation, but 93 times?
 

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Well, just an update. He looked at me 100+ times today and when he wasn't explaining things to the class, he was looking at me the whole time. No matter where he walked his body was pointing towards my direction. And his pupils were dilated.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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MsAviator said:
Well, just an update. He looked at me 100+ times today and when he wasn't explaining things to the class, he was looking at me the whole time. No matter where he walked his body was pointing towards my direction. And his pupils were dilated.
Maybe you were imagining it?
 

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Nope. Dead sure I was conscious. Nope. He looked at me 100 + (I did a tally) times in a two hour period. I played a little game with him. I would look at the board and out of my peripheral, I caught him. He lingered for a few seconds and looked away. I caught him so many times yet he kept making eye contact with me. He was looking me directly in the eyes. So if he was phasing out and saw me looking at him, assuming if he was not interested, he would not continuing giving eye contact to show he's not interested. He didn't do that.

I also moved really close to him. He did not Move away.
 

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MsAviator said:
Pics? What sort? His pics or mine?

Secondly I know that eye contact between student and professors are normal during a presentation, but 93 times?
Yours.
 

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What do you mean by "yours"?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Ya and my pic is my avatar.
 

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Ya and my pic is my avatar.

What is so special about you for him to take an interest? Are you an engineer student or something where you are the only female?
 

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What is so special about you for him to take an interest? Are you an engineer student or something where you are the only female?
She's asian, so she has a tight hoo-ha

MsAviator: do what Mauser96 said, then I want your next sosuave thread to be titled "My professor got me pregnant".
 

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Pregnant? My career is important to me. Obviously if I am pregnant, I will never gain my flying hours up. Aviation is a male dominated industry, and only a small percentage is women. I am considered attractive by many and I am a distinction student. There aren't much girls in the class either. Only 6 and 50 guys.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Pregnant? My career is important to me. Obviously if I am pregnant, I will never gain my flying hours up. Aviation is a male dominated industry, and only a small percentage is women. I am considered attractive by many and I am a distinction student. There aren't much girls in the class either. Only 6 and 50 guys.

Professor aside, are you seeing any guys romantically at the moment?
 

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Yes a couple. Trying to keep the options open.
 

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I don't want to get pregnant :(
 

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I can't. We wear uniforms and that includes slacks, ties and epaulettes. No skirts allowed.
 

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For someone your age and experience, that was very helpful. I am not stupid. My IQ is 153 by Mensa testing and my professors think of me intellectually. I am a career driven woman and I have completed multivariate calculus at the age of 17 at university. I wish people weren't so rude and ASSume that I'm a troll.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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