Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Is my professor attracted to me?

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Lol no. Unless he is a pilot XP. Here's a random thing to confirm I am indeed a pilot: blockage of pitot static system causes a false indication of IAS due to Bernoulli's principle it is based upon: as velocity increases, static pressure decreases.

By the way, I did say "Nice shirt" and all he said was a plain "thanks". I think it was maybe too subtle or something. Will it creep you guys out if a girl said: you're cute. I wish guys around my age these days are more like you.

And no, I AM SO HAPPY!No wedding ring. Never mentioned a girlfriend let alone a woman. Always mentioned about his mates and friends.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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There is no breach of academic misconduct since the course would then be finished. Do I ask him if he could help me with my commercial pilot's license stuff after the class and talk over it over coffee?
 

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First, we need more pics to correctly asses the situation at hand.

OP yes he is interested in you.

Just keep gently flirting with him and when class is over, ask him out if he doesn't ask you out first.
 

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Pics? What sort? His pics or mine?

Secondly I know that eye contact between student and professors are normal during a presentation, but 93 times?
 

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Well, just an update. He looked at me 100+ times today and when he wasn't explaining things to the class, he was looking at me the whole time. No matter where he walked his body was pointing towards my direction. And his pupils were dilated.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Well, just an update. He looked at me 100+ times today and when he wasn't explaining things to the class, he was looking at me the whole time. No matter where he walked his body was pointing towards my direction. And his pupils were dilated.
Maybe you were imagining it?
 

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Nope. Dead sure I was conscious. Nope. He looked at me 100 + (I did a tally) times in a two hour period. I played a little game with him. I would look at the board and out of my peripheral, I caught him. He lingered for a few seconds and looked away. I caught him so many times yet he kept making eye contact with me. He was looking me directly in the eyes. So if he was phasing out and saw me looking at him, assuming if he was not interested, he would not continuing giving eye contact to show he's not interested. He didn't do that.

I also moved really close to him. He did not Move away.
 

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MsAviator said:
Pics? What sort? His pics or mine?

Secondly I know that eye contact between student and professors are normal during a presentation, but 93 times?
Yours.
 

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What do you mean by "yours"?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Ya and my pic is my avatar.
 

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Ya and my pic is my avatar.

What is so special about you for him to take an interest? Are you an engineer student or something where you are the only female?
 

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What is so special about you for him to take an interest? Are you an engineer student or something where you are the only female?
She's asian, so she has a tight hoo-ha

MsAviator: do what Mauser96 said, then I want your next sosuave thread to be titled "My professor got me pregnant".
 

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Pregnant? My career is important to me. Obviously if I am pregnant, I will never gain my flying hours up. Aviation is a male dominated industry, and only a small percentage is women. I am considered attractive by many and I am a distinction student. There aren't much girls in the class either. Only 6 and 50 guys.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Pregnant? My career is important to me. Obviously if I am pregnant, I will never gain my flying hours up. Aviation is a male dominated industry, and only a small percentage is women. I am considered attractive by many and I am a distinction student. There aren't much girls in the class either. Only 6 and 50 guys.

Professor aside, are you seeing any guys romantically at the moment?
 

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Yes a couple. Trying to keep the options open.
 

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I don't want to get pregnant :(
 

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I can't. We wear uniforms and that includes slacks, ties and epaulettes. No skirts allowed.
 

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For someone your age and experience, that was very helpful. I am not stupid. My IQ is 153 by Mensa testing and my professors think of me intellectually. I am a career driven woman and I have completed multivariate calculus at the age of 17 at university. I wish people weren't so rude and ASSume that I'm a troll.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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