Reservoir Dog
Don Juan
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You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Emotional manipulation at its finest. She's trying to play on any perceived fears you might have of her leaving you.Reservoir Dog said:She mumbled something about this being the last time she stays round but I ignored it and continued sleeping.
Ummmm you put the wrong emotionsReservoir Dog said:I didn't cave and she did contact me. To tell me that she is pregnant!!I think she wants to keep it. :crazy: I want to keep it too. :flowers: Thanks for the advice fellas. Wish me luck.
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She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Classic signs of the BPD female. You're signing your death wish and you don't even know it.Reservoir Dog said:Because aside from the negatives I pointed out in my OP the positives include:
Her rushing out to see me at a moments notice after a night out.
The greatest sex I've ever had constantly since I met this girl.
Unbelievable mental connection where we are both on each other's levels to the point of telepathy like I've met with no other.
Buys me presents all the time without ever expecting anything back.
Funny. Great sense of humour.
Kind.
Warm.
Loving.
Only had 2 partners prior to me.
Intelligent.
Sexy.
Beautiful.
Funny.
Hardworking.
In love with me as I am with her.
Etc etc.
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She did WHAT?Reservoir Dog said:ekljlkeknsdkfksfd
Ok listen closely, you go full NC immediately. Lock your doors and board up the windows.Reservoir Dog said:ekhskdfksdfd
Oh no, oh god no say it ain't so!Reservoir Dog said:ekshdf; hd;if hdofhdo fd
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