Reservoir Dog
Don Juan
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You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Emotional manipulation at its finest. She's trying to play on any perceived fears you might have of her leaving you.Reservoir Dog said:She mumbled something about this being the last time she stays round but I ignored it and continued sleeping.
Ummmm you put the wrong emotionsReservoir Dog said:I didn't cave and she did contact me. To tell me that she is pregnant!!I think she wants to keep it. :crazy: I want to keep it too. :flowers: Thanks for the advice fellas. Wish me luck.
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Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Classic signs of the BPD female. You're signing your death wish and you don't even know it.Reservoir Dog said:Because aside from the negatives I pointed out in my OP the positives include:
Her rushing out to see me at a moments notice after a night out.
The greatest sex I've ever had constantly since I met this girl.
Unbelievable mental connection where we are both on each other's levels to the point of telepathy like I've met with no other.
Buys me presents all the time without ever expecting anything back.
Funny. Great sense of humour.
Kind.
Warm.
Loving.
Only had 2 partners prior to me.
Intelligent.
Sexy.
Beautiful.
Funny.
Hardworking.
In love with me as I am with her.
Etc etc.
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She did WHAT?Reservoir Dog said:ekljlkeknsdkfksfd
Ok listen closely, you go full NC immediately. Lock your doors and board up the windows.Reservoir Dog said:ekhskdfksdfd
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