"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Is my Gfriend is mad at me and should I make the first move?

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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You finish how u start dawg, you should have told her to stfu the first time she tried taking all of the bed or you should have thrown her ass off the bed an been like theres alot of room on the floor biaaatch! jk. But seriously any sign of disrespect you need to stop it immediately. Seems like she has no respect for you. Btw she sounds young judging by her tantrums...what are you like 18? Just text her a "hey crabby ;)" .
 

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This is the worst kind of relationship.. the kind where they dis respect you just enough but you stick around taking the bull ****.
 

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Reading posts like this and reflecting on my own past relationships it is kind of disturbing that men put up or used to put with this kind of behavior.

why are we so scared to call women on their bad behavior? and why, if we do it, do we wonder if we are to hard on them? if they are mad at us etc etc?

It's only when u have been in enough relationships or have been visiting sites like SS that u stop tolerating this behavior. Still This is F*ckedup man, Why the Fvck do women act this way while their weak bf's get all choked up about upsetting their special little snowflake.


LoL I think The reason why men in the old days used to slap their women once in a while was because of this BS right here.

Anyways OP it's time to install a BS meter.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Reservoir Dog said:
She mumbled something about this being the last time she stays round but I ignored it and continued sleeping.
Emotional manipulation at its finest. She's trying to play on any perceived fears you might have of her leaving you.

Any decision made based on that fear will lead to an AFC action which tells her she can walk all over you.

Since she has already left, I wouldn't send anything to her at all. Let her go. She will likely contact you on her own time. Focus your energy elsewhere on other things and women.

She is trying to see if you cave into her bluff and apologize for her rude attitude.
 

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^^^^This. "You must spread some reputation around..."

OP, you have to DEMONSTRATE to her that her moodiness and manipulation aren't going to effect you, and that you won't tolerate disrespect. If you go gro sling to her now "baby are you mad at me for not letting you treat me like sh!t?" then it will get far worse - though perhaps slowly.

So, as others have said - say nothing. Work on improving yourself. Focus on your goals. If she comes groveling back, bang her senseless but be looking around for a new chick.
 

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Reservoir Dog said:
I didn't cave and she did contact me. To tell me that she is pregnant!! :eek: I think she wants to keep it. :crazy: I want to keep it too. :flowers: Thanks for the advice fellas. Wish me luck. :cry: :cuss: :(
Ummmm you put the wrong emotions
Fixed them for you.
Why would you want a kid with this girl :whistle:
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Reservoir Dog said:
Because aside from the negatives I pointed out in my OP the positives include:

Her rushing out to see me at a moments notice after a night out.

The greatest sex I've ever had constantly since I met this girl.

Unbelievable mental connection where we are both on each other's levels to the point of telepathy like I've met with no other.

Buys me presents all the time without ever expecting anything back.

Funny. Great sense of humour.

Kind.

Warm.

Loving.

Only had 2 partners prior to me.

Intelligent.

Sexy.

Beautiful.

Funny.

Hardworking.

In love with me as I am with her.

Etc etc.
Classic signs of the BPD female. You're signing your death wish and you don't even know it.
 

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Reservoir Dog said:
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Sorry I didn't quite catch that, come again

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She did WHAT?

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Ok listen closely, you go full NC immediately. Lock your doors and board up the windows.

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Oh no, oh god no say it ain't so!

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GAME OVER MAN
 
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