Reservoir Dog
Don Juan
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Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Emotional manipulation at its finest. She's trying to play on any perceived fears you might have of her leaving you.Reservoir Dog said:She mumbled something about this being the last time she stays round but I ignored it and continued sleeping.
Ummmm you put the wrong emotionsReservoir Dog said:I didn't cave and she did contact me. To tell me that she is pregnant!!I think she wants to keep it. :crazy: I want to keep it too. :flowers: Thanks for the advice fellas. Wish me luck.
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She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Classic signs of the BPD female. You're signing your death wish and you don't even know it.Reservoir Dog said:Because aside from the negatives I pointed out in my OP the positives include:
Her rushing out to see me at a moments notice after a night out.
The greatest sex I've ever had constantly since I met this girl.
Unbelievable mental connection where we are both on each other's levels to the point of telepathy like I've met with no other.
Buys me presents all the time without ever expecting anything back.
Funny. Great sense of humour.
Kind.
Warm.
Loving.
Only had 2 partners prior to me.
Intelligent.
Sexy.
Beautiful.
Funny.
Hardworking.
In love with me as I am with her.
Etc etc.
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She did WHAT?Reservoir Dog said:ekljlkeknsdkfksfd
Ok listen closely, you go full NC immediately. Lock your doors and board up the windows.Reservoir Dog said:ekhskdfksdfd
Oh no, oh god no say it ain't so!Reservoir Dog said:ekshdf; hd;if hdofhdo fd
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