Reservoir Dog
Don Juan
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You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Emotional manipulation at its finest. She's trying to play on any perceived fears you might have of her leaving you.Reservoir Dog said:She mumbled something about this being the last time she stays round but I ignored it and continued sleeping.
Ummmm you put the wrong emotionsReservoir Dog said:I didn't cave and she did contact me. To tell me that she is pregnant!!I think she wants to keep it. :crazy: I want to keep it too. :flowers: Thanks for the advice fellas. Wish me luck.
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Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Classic signs of the BPD female. You're signing your death wish and you don't even know it.Reservoir Dog said:Because aside from the negatives I pointed out in my OP the positives include:
Her rushing out to see me at a moments notice after a night out.
The greatest sex I've ever had constantly since I met this girl.
Unbelievable mental connection where we are both on each other's levels to the point of telepathy like I've met with no other.
Buys me presents all the time without ever expecting anything back.
Funny. Great sense of humour.
Kind.
Warm.
Loving.
Only had 2 partners prior to me.
Intelligent.
Sexy.
Beautiful.
Funny.
Hardworking.
In love with me as I am with her.
Etc etc.
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She did WHAT?Reservoir Dog said:ekljlkeknsdkfksfd
Ok listen closely, you go full NC immediately. Lock your doors and board up the windows.Reservoir Dog said:ekhskdfksdfd
Oh no, oh god no say it ain't so!Reservoir Dog said:ekshdf; hd;if hdofhdo fd
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