"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Is it wrong too hit on girls?

Stéphane

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I was attending a group on about Korean language & culture. Anyhow, the assistant organizer just decided too kick me out today, saying that I wrote inappropriate emails and did advances.

Well, my emails were super safe I think, like it was nice seeing you at the meetup or things like that.

I admit I did try too set up a few dates with some of the girls, but isn't that normal for a single guy. I don't know I feel ashamed right now, I guess thats why guys only hit on girls at bars or clubs the social stigma doesn't seem too follow.

I am dating a girl at salsa right now, I better be careful in what I say because I wouldn't want too get kicked out...

sigh.. I'll just stick too bars and clubs from now on..
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Tyson420

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As ****ed as that is, nothing you can do.

I do sense envy though, but as I said there's nothing you can do about that.
 

Stéphane

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Yeah I think your right, it might be a case of jealousy.. but I feel bad if I made some of the girls uncomfortable I didn't mean too do that.
 

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I feel bad if I made some of the girls uncomfortable I didn't mean too do that.
You can't make an omelette without breaking some eggs.

I don't see where you did anything inappropriate. If it was in a workplace I could understand if someone would object but not in the situation as you described it.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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