"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

Read more...

Is it wrong too hit on girls?

Stéphane

Master Don Juan
Joined
Sep 7, 2007
Messages
505
Reaction score
4
I was attending a group on about Korean language & culture. Anyhow, the assistant organizer just decided too kick me out today, saying that I wrote inappropriate emails and did advances.

Well, my emails were super safe I think, like it was nice seeing you at the meetup or things like that.

I admit I did try too set up a few dates with some of the girls, but isn't that normal for a single guy. I don't know I feel ashamed right now, I guess thats why guys only hit on girls at bars or clubs the social stigma doesn't seem too follow.

I am dating a girl at salsa right now, I better be careful in what I say because I wouldn't want too get kicked out...

sigh.. I'll just stick too bars and clubs from now on..
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

Read more...

Tyson420

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Oct 3, 2009
Messages
328
Reaction score
7
Location
BC Vancouver
As ****ed as that is, nothing you can do.

I do sense envy though, but as I said there's nothing you can do about that.
 

Stéphane

Master Don Juan
Joined
Sep 7, 2007
Messages
505
Reaction score
4
Yeah I think your right, it might be a case of jealousy.. but I feel bad if I made some of the girls uncomfortable I didn't mean too do that.
 

zekko

Master Don Juan
Joined
Aug 6, 2009
Messages
16,806
Reaction score
10,039
I feel bad if I made some of the girls uncomfortable I didn't mean too do that.
You can't make an omelette without breaking some eggs.

I don't see where you did anything inappropriate. If it was in a workplace I could understand if someone would object but not in the situation as you described it.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

Read more...

Top