Dhoulmagus
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or am I screwed
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Is it typical for the girl to be obsessed with you at first
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“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
sylvester the cat
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Judging by your previous posts it is very clear that this is not typical.
Perhaps you've found someone who perceives you as high value? Ride that wave if you please.
Perhaps you've found someone who perceives you as high value? Ride that wave if you please.
VikingKing
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If you are smart about it ( I mean smart subjectively in this context).
I promise you if your game is on really good, you can be a drug addicted, piece of sh!t, and you can get a good woman to not only slob your nob, but pay you rent.
Women are retards man. You can litterally just be a big piece of garbage, and a woman who is like a scientists, phd, whatever she is (smart) and still. No they are not obessed with you first, or not like you are with them.
You have to either be the sh!t or make them think you are the sh!t (or is it a combination?).
If you are just some dude, you have a lot of work to do. If you are a troll, it kind of makes me think (if its the case) that you must be really fat, or just somthing wrong with you.
or you could be a feminist troll.
I promise you if your game is on really good, you can be a drug addicted, piece of sh!t, and you can get a good woman to not only slob your nob, but pay you rent.
Women are retards man. You can litterally just be a big piece of garbage, and a woman who is like a scientists, phd, whatever she is (smart) and still. No they are not obessed with you first, or not like you are with them.
You have to either be the sh!t or make them think you are the sh!t (or is it a combination?).
If you are just some dude, you have a lot of work to do. If you are a troll, it kind of makes me think (if its the case) that you must be really fat, or just somthing wrong with you.
or you could be a feminist troll.
I know a guy who got through life with women paying him to get by. Street smart as fvck. They do leave once they realise what's happening, but he always seems to find another one. :crackup: That's what millions of women do to men and no one bats an eyelid.VikingKing said:
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
hockeyfreak79
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What are the circumstances.....have you even hit it yet?
She could just be really hungry for attention or sex or both?! Maybe she's looking to branch? Just play by your rules man, you lead she doesn't. You'll know when a red flag hits you in the face.
She could just be really hungry for attention or sex or both?! Maybe she's looking to branch? Just play by your rules man, you lead she doesn't. You'll know when a red flag hits you in the face.
Dhoulmagus
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That's what I've been thinking, but I'm pretty high value for a black guy.GS750 said:
Meisterman
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It's not necessarily uncommon in my experience. HOWEVER, I find the more obsessed about you they are to begin with, and the faster they pursue it, the more likely they are to become UNINTERESTED just as quickly, and also more likely to fall into the "BPD" category. But they won't leave you until they know they have you. And then once you give them the validation that you like them back as much as they like you, they will drop you.
Basically, the faster the train rides the tracks, the quicker the whole thing will eventually derail.
Basically, the faster the train rides the tracks, the quicker the whole thing will eventually derail.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Dhoulmagus
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What do I do
RangerMIke
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Sometimes women have immediate high levels of attraction for you. Understand that this is NOT something she can control. Heck, no one can really control attraction, it's either there or it's not.Dhoulmagus said:
When they start like this the truth of the matter is it can only go down. Just do not expect this to last. As she gets to know you better, this will drop. You should not expect this to last unless you continue to deliver what she needs.
All you can do is enjoy it while it lasts and continue to display male strength qualities and don't lose your center. Remember she is attracted to you because of how you are NOW, when you get into relationships she will attempt to change you.... DON'T let her. Women are emotional and she might FEEL you need to change, but deep down inside she is attracted to you the way you are.
Dhoulmagus
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Ya I made this mistake with the last girl after she asked to be exclusive. I felt like I had to act different because. Also, we have had sex too.RangerMIke said:
Bingo-Player
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The last time a chick was obsessed with me after the first date i took my red flags and run for the hills
Was a wise move i can tell you that much
Was a wise move i can tell you that much
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
GS750
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Yeah I had a stage 5 clinger not too long ago that I had to move on from. The problem is, at least for me, when they are soooo into you and are borderline obsessed with you it sends up red flags. I started wondering if she was really into me or just desperate for a relationship because she can't be alone. It killed the challenge...and with it went my interest. I had to eject.