Is it typical for the girl to be obsessed with you at first

[Dhoulmagus]

or am I screwed

 

[sylvester the cat]

Judging by your previous posts it is very clear that this is not typical.

Perhaps you've found someone who perceives you as high value? Ride that wave if you please.

 

[VikingKing]

If you are smart about it ( I mean smart subjectively in this context).

I promise you if your game is on really good, you can be a drug addicted, piece of sh!t, and you can get a good woman to not only slob your nob, but pay you rent.

Women are retards man. You can litterally just be a big piece of garbage, and a woman who is like a scientists, phd, whatever she is (smart) and still. No they are not obessed with you first, or not like you are with them.

You have to either be the sh!t or make them think you are the sh!t (or is it a combination?).

If you are just some dude, you have a lot of work to do. If you are a troll, it kind of makes me think (if its the case) that you must be really fat, or just somthing wrong with you.

or you could be a feminist troll.

 

[Die Hard]

It's not typical...unless you are very high value or she has very low self esteem.

 

[LMFAO]

If you are smart about it ( I mean smart subjectively in this context).

I promise you if your game is on really good, you can be a drug addicted, piece of sh!t, and you can get a good woman to not only slob your nob, but pay you rent.

I know a guy who got through life with women paying him to get by. Street smart as fvck. They do leave once they realise what's happening, but he always seems to find another one. :crackup: That's what millions of women do to men and no one bats an eyelid.

 

[hockeyfreak79]

What are the circumstances.....have you even hit it yet?

She could just be really hungry for attention or sex or both?! Maybe she's looking to branch? Just play by your rules man, you lead she doesn't. You'll know when a red flag hits you in the face.

 

[GS750]

It's not typical...unless you are very high value or she has very low self esteem.

Pretty much this. But remember girls like that get bored just as fast and find a new guy to obsess over. BPD girls are like that too, keep that in mind.

 

[Dhoulmagus]

Pretty much this. But remember girls like that get bored just as fast and find a new guy to obsess over. BPD girls are like that too, keep that in mind.

That's what I've been thinking, but I'm pretty high value for a black guy.

 

[expos]

That's what I've been thinking, but I'm pretty high value for a black guy.

lol. What does that mean??!

 

[Meisterman]

It's not necessarily uncommon in my experience. HOWEVER, I find the more obsessed about you they are to begin with, and the faster they pursue it, the more likely they are to become UNINTERESTED just as quickly, and also more likely to fall into the "BPD" category. But they won't leave you until they know they have you. And then once you give them the validation that you like them back as much as they like you, they will drop you.

Basically, the faster the train rides the tracks, the quicker the whole thing will eventually derail.

 

[expos]

It's not necessarily uncommon in my experience. HOWEVER, I find the more obsessed about you they are to begin with, and the faster they pursue it, the more likely they are to become UNINTERESTED just as quickly, and also more likely to fall into the "BPD" category. But they won't leave you until they know they have you. And then once you give them the validation that you like them back as much as they like you, they will drop you.

Basically, the faster the train rides the tracks, the quicker the whole thing will eventually derail.

THIS X1000000

 

[Dhoulmagus]

What do I do

 

[RangerMIke]

What do I do

Sometimes women have immediate high levels of attraction for you. Understand that this is NOT something she can control. Heck, no one can really control attraction, it's either there or it's not.

When they start like this the truth of the matter is it can only go down. Just do not expect this to last. As she gets to know you better, this will drop. You should not expect this to last unless you continue to deliver what she needs.

All you can do is enjoy it while it lasts and continue to display male strength qualities and don't lose your center. Remember she is attracted to you because of how you are NOW, when you get into relationships she will attempt to change you.... DON'T let her. Women are emotional and she might FEEL you need to change, but deep down inside she is attracted to you the way you are.

 

[Dhoulmagus]

Sometimes women have immediate high levels of attraction for you. Understand that this is NOT something she can control. Heck, no one can really control attraction, it's either there or it's not.

When they start like this the truth of the matter is it can only go down. Just do not expect this to last. As she gets to know you better, this will drop. You should not expect this to last unless you continue to deliver what she needs.

All you can do is enjoy it while it lasts and continue to display male strength qualities and don't lose your center. Remember she is attracted to you because of how you are NOW, when you get into relationships she will attempt to change you.... DON'T let her. Women are emotional and she might FEEL you need to change, but deep down inside she is attracted to you the way you are.

Ya I made this mistake with the last girl after she asked to be exclusive. I felt like I had to act different because. Also, we have had sex too.

 

[Bingo-Player]

The last time a chick was obsessed with me after the first date i took my red flags and run for the hills

Was a wise move i can tell you that much

 

[GS750]

Yeah I had a stage 5 clinger not too long ago that I had to move on from. The problem is, at least for me, when they are soooo into you and are borderline obsessed with you it sends up red flags. I started wondering if she was really into me or just desperate for a relationship because she can't be alone. It killed the challenge...and with it went my interest. I had to eject.