Philippe Schlichting
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"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Is it normal that you want to punch this guy?
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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No it's not normal, something terribly wrong with you if you want to punch that guy.
Philippe Schlichting
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I see, I am doing everything alright. What do you like so much about him?backseatjuan said:
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That 15 year old teen is on the right track! He is open, bright, and can show emotions for the camera. He'd make a great actor as he matures!
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Go on rubbing salt into your wound.backseatjuan said:
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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Normal is subjective, however, it doesn't seem very emotionally healthy. Nor does it seem likely to help you at all.
What you might want to consider is why you dislike him so much that you would want to hurt him? Why do you feel you need to put people like that down in public?
It's possible that you are seeing parts of your own personality in him that you don't like and that's why you have such a strong emotional reaction.
Or maybe it's that he is able and willing to act in ways you would like to act but don't feel comfortable with at this point.
Me, I'm just glad I'm not him.
What you might want to consider is why you dislike him so much that you would want to hurt him? Why do you feel you need to put people like that down in public?
It's possible that you are seeing parts of your own personality in him that you don't like and that's why you have such a strong emotional reaction.
Or maybe it's that he is able and willing to act in ways you would like to act but don't feel comfortable with at this point.
Me, I'm just glad I'm not him.
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Elaborate.
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Cuz I like being me. If I was him I wouldn't be as awesome.
He doesn't really come across as a man's man, I probably wouldn't want to hang out with him.
I guess I'm trying to say, it's fine to dislike people. You're not going to like everyone you meet or see. That doesn't mean it's ok to want to destroy them for it.
The fact that you want to hurt him just puts a spotlight on the your own latent insecurities.
What is it about him that makes you feel so much anger?
He doesn't really come across as a man's man, I probably wouldn't want to hang out with him.
I guess I'm trying to say, it's fine to dislike people. You're not going to like everyone you meet or see. That doesn't mean it's ok to want to destroy them for it.
The fact that you want to hurt him just puts a spotlight on the your own latent insecurities.
What is it about him that makes you feel so much anger?
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
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What I mean is this: Let's say I wanted a girl he wanted. His behaviour is - unfortunately - attractive to women. He does almost everything pickup teaches. I would think "what a dumbass" but she would like him. I'd have to out alpha him which is exactly why I ask: "What do you do to put people like that down if you meet them in public?"
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Are you sure?Philippe Schlichting said:
He just seems like a goofy guy in the friendzone in this video.
Who cares if girls are into guys like this anyway, they change their minds as often as their panties. Focus on yourself, be the best version of you, and you'll automatically be more attractive to women. Don't worry about what the next guy is doing.
Also, hating on other guys just makes you look weak and insecure.