Philippe Schlichting
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Is it normal that you want to punch this guy?
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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No it's not normal, something terribly wrong with you if you want to punch that guy.
Philippe Schlichting
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I see, I am doing everything alright. What do you like so much about him?backseatjuan said:
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That 15 year old teen is on the right track! He is open, bright, and can show emotions for the camera. He'd make a great actor as he matures!
Philippe Schlichting
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Go on rubbing salt into your wound.backseatjuan said:
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
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Normal is subjective, however, it doesn't seem very emotionally healthy. Nor does it seem likely to help you at all.
What you might want to consider is why you dislike him so much that you would want to hurt him? Why do you feel you need to put people like that down in public?
It's possible that you are seeing parts of your own personality in him that you don't like and that's why you have such a strong emotional reaction.
Or maybe it's that he is able and willing to act in ways you would like to act but don't feel comfortable with at this point.
Me, I'm just glad I'm not him.
What you might want to consider is why you dislike him so much that you would want to hurt him? Why do you feel you need to put people like that down in public?
It's possible that you are seeing parts of your own personality in him that you don't like and that's why you have such a strong emotional reaction.
Or maybe it's that he is able and willing to act in ways you would like to act but don't feel comfortable with at this point.
Me, I'm just glad I'm not him.
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Elaborate.
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Cuz I like being me. If I was him I wouldn't be as awesome.
He doesn't really come across as a man's man, I probably wouldn't want to hang out with him.
I guess I'm trying to say, it's fine to dislike people. You're not going to like everyone you meet or see. That doesn't mean it's ok to want to destroy them for it.
The fact that you want to hurt him just puts a spotlight on the your own latent insecurities.
What is it about him that makes you feel so much anger?
He doesn't really come across as a man's man, I probably wouldn't want to hang out with him.
I guess I'm trying to say, it's fine to dislike people. You're not going to like everyone you meet or see. That doesn't mean it's ok to want to destroy them for it.
The fact that you want to hurt him just puts a spotlight on the your own latent insecurities.
What is it about him that makes you feel so much anger?
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
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What I mean is this: Let's say I wanted a girl he wanted. His behaviour is - unfortunately - attractive to women. He does almost everything pickup teaches. I would think "what a dumbass" but she would like him. I'd have to out alpha him which is exactly why I ask: "What do you do to put people like that down if you meet them in public?"
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Are you sure?Philippe Schlichting said:
He just seems like a goofy guy in the friendzone in this video.
Who cares if girls are into guys like this anyway, they change their minds as often as their panties. Focus on yourself, be the best version of you, and you'll automatically be more attractive to women. Don't worry about what the next guy is doing.
Also, hating on other guys just makes you look weak and insecure.