Philippe Schlichting
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Is it normal that you want to punch this guy?
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
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No it's not normal, something terribly wrong with you if you want to punch that guy.
Philippe Schlichting
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I see, I am doing everything alright. What do you like so much about him?backseatjuan said:
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That 15 year old teen is on the right track! He is open, bright, and can show emotions for the camera. He'd make a great actor as he matures!
Philippe Schlichting
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Go on rubbing salt into your wound.backseatjuan said:
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
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Normal is subjective, however, it doesn't seem very emotionally healthy. Nor does it seem likely to help you at all.
What you might want to consider is why you dislike him so much that you would want to hurt him? Why do you feel you need to put people like that down in public?
It's possible that you are seeing parts of your own personality in him that you don't like and that's why you have such a strong emotional reaction.
Or maybe it's that he is able and willing to act in ways you would like to act but don't feel comfortable with at this point.
Me, I'm just glad I'm not him.
What you might want to consider is why you dislike him so much that you would want to hurt him? Why do you feel you need to put people like that down in public?
It's possible that you are seeing parts of your own personality in him that you don't like and that's why you have such a strong emotional reaction.
Or maybe it's that he is able and willing to act in ways you would like to act but don't feel comfortable with at this point.
Me, I'm just glad I'm not him.
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Elaborate.
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Cuz I like being me. If I was him I wouldn't be as awesome.
He doesn't really come across as a man's man, I probably wouldn't want to hang out with him.
I guess I'm trying to say, it's fine to dislike people. You're not going to like everyone you meet or see. That doesn't mean it's ok to want to destroy them for it.
The fact that you want to hurt him just puts a spotlight on the your own latent insecurities.
What is it about him that makes you feel so much anger?
He doesn't really come across as a man's man, I probably wouldn't want to hang out with him.
I guess I'm trying to say, it's fine to dislike people. You're not going to like everyone you meet or see. That doesn't mean it's ok to want to destroy them for it.
The fact that you want to hurt him just puts a spotlight on the your own latent insecurities.
What is it about him that makes you feel so much anger?
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
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What I mean is this: Let's say I wanted a girl he wanted. His behaviour is - unfortunately - attractive to women. He does almost everything pickup teaches. I would think "what a dumbass" but she would like him. I'd have to out alpha him which is exactly why I ask: "What do you do to put people like that down if you meet them in public?"
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Are you sure?Philippe Schlichting said:
He just seems like a goofy guy in the friendzone in this video.
Who cares if girls are into guys like this anyway, they change their minds as often as their panties. Focus on yourself, be the best version of you, and you'll automatically be more attractive to women. Don't worry about what the next guy is doing.
Also, hating on other guys just makes you look weak and insecure.