Philippe Schlichting
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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Is it normal that you want to punch this guy?
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
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No it's not normal, something terribly wrong with you if you want to punch that guy.
Philippe Schlichting
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I see, I am doing everything alright. What do you like so much about him?backseatjuan said:
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That 15 year old teen is on the right track! He is open, bright, and can show emotions for the camera. He'd make a great actor as he matures!
Philippe Schlichting
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Go on rubbing salt into your wound.backseatjuan said:
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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Normal is subjective, however, it doesn't seem very emotionally healthy. Nor does it seem likely to help you at all.
What you might want to consider is why you dislike him so much that you would want to hurt him? Why do you feel you need to put people like that down in public?
It's possible that you are seeing parts of your own personality in him that you don't like and that's why you have such a strong emotional reaction.
Or maybe it's that he is able and willing to act in ways you would like to act but don't feel comfortable with at this point.
Me, I'm just glad I'm not him.
What you might want to consider is why you dislike him so much that you would want to hurt him? Why do you feel you need to put people like that down in public?
It's possible that you are seeing parts of your own personality in him that you don't like and that's why you have such a strong emotional reaction.
Or maybe it's that he is able and willing to act in ways you would like to act but don't feel comfortable with at this point.
Me, I'm just glad I'm not him.
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Elaborate.
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Cuz I like being me. If I was him I wouldn't be as awesome.
He doesn't really come across as a man's man, I probably wouldn't want to hang out with him.
I guess I'm trying to say, it's fine to dislike people. You're not going to like everyone you meet or see. That doesn't mean it's ok to want to destroy them for it.
The fact that you want to hurt him just puts a spotlight on the your own latent insecurities.
What is it about him that makes you feel so much anger?
He doesn't really come across as a man's man, I probably wouldn't want to hang out with him.
I guess I'm trying to say, it's fine to dislike people. You're not going to like everyone you meet or see. That doesn't mean it's ok to want to destroy them for it.
The fact that you want to hurt him just puts a spotlight on the your own latent insecurities.
What is it about him that makes you feel so much anger?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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What I mean is this: Let's say I wanted a girl he wanted. His behaviour is - unfortunately - attractive to women. He does almost everything pickup teaches. I would think "what a dumbass" but she would like him. I'd have to out alpha him which is exactly why I ask: "What do you do to put people like that down if you meet them in public?"
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Are you sure?Philippe Schlichting said:
He just seems like a goofy guy in the friendzone in this video.
Who cares if girls are into guys like this anyway, they change their minds as often as their panties. Focus on yourself, be the best version of you, and you'll automatically be more attractive to women. Don't worry about what the next guy is doing.
Also, hating on other guys just makes you look weak and insecure.