SeymourCake
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What do y'all think?
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Is it a bad move to ask the girl if they have a boyfriend?
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
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What is the point of asking this question?
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Can't read?
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Are you really this dense?SeymourCake said:
What is the point of asking the girl if she has a boyfriend. Who gives a fvck?
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So in other words, don't ask. What if they tell you they have a boyfriend?
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
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Tell her you have multiple girlfriends and aren't the jealous type.SeymourCake said:
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That won't work. She'll look at me like any other man who fits into that stereotype.
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Good.SeymourCake said:
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It is possible to find out without actually asking her.
You "Hey what did you do this weekend?"
Her "I did xyz"
You "That's cool. Did you go with your boyfriend?"
Then she'd either say something like.
Yeah I did
He didn't come
I don't have a boyfriend
The girl won't know that you are really asking if she has a BF and she will have no reason to lie.
What you do from then on is up to you.
You "Hey what did you do this weekend?"
Her "I did xyz"
You "That's cool. Did you go with your boyfriend?"
Then she'd either say something like.
Yeah I did
He didn't come
I don't have a boyfriend
The girl won't know that you are really asking if she has a BF and she will have no reason to lie.
What you do from then on is up to you.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
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NEVER ask if they have a bf or are married. If they are off the market they'll let you know. And if you to blurt it out and ask there's a good chance you'll get the autopilot response they have one even if they don't.SeymourCake said:
I forget who said it, but it's pretty damn true:
"If you've got bad game they'll tell you they have a bf even if they don't. If you've got good game they'll hope you don't find out about him."
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When you make your move on her, she'll let you know. If she says she does, either you had weak game or just wasn't attractive or didn't have enough to offer. Translation; She's just not that into you.
If she's interested in you somehow, she'll make it known. If you got fame, looks, or are rich, or have a great job, and you ask her, it's highly likely she'll say she doesn't have a boyfriend. If you're not and you ask her, she'll tell you she does even if she actually doesn't.
Case closed.
If she's interested in you somehow, she'll make it known. If you got fame, looks, or are rich, or have a great job, and you ask her, it's highly likely she'll say she doesn't have a boyfriend. If you're not and you ask her, she'll tell you she does even if she actually doesn't.
Case closed.
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I don't know...Do we have the same username?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
no disrespect
cake my man you need to read and not post so much because you need to take (IN=LET SOME OF THE PREVIOUS ADVICE SET IN) the whole being a dj thing its cool to ask question but not everyday there are other post that answer your question
but to answer your question you do not ask because it will come off as insecure=afc
if you have any question go to the search bar and type in what your looking trust me this forum has plenty of threads with just about any question
cake my man you need to read and not post so much because you need to take (IN=LET SOME OF THE PREVIOUS ADVICE SET IN) the whole being a dj thing its cool to ask question but not everyday there are other post that answer your question
but to answer your question you do not ask because it will come off as insecure=afc
if you have any question go to the search bar and type in what your looking trust me this forum has plenty of threads with just about any question