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Is it a bad move to ask the girl if they have a boyfriend?

SeymourCake

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What do y'all think?
 

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Can't read?
 

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So in other words, don't ask. What if they tell you they have a boyfriend?
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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That won't work. She'll look at me like any other man who fits into that stereotype.
 

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Don't ask.... Make her answer the question through your advances
 

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It is possible to find out without actually asking her.

You "Hey what did you do this weekend?"
Her "I did xyz"
You "That's cool. Did you go with your boyfriend?"

Then she'd either say something like.

Yeah I did
He didn't come
I don't have a boyfriend

The girl won't know that you are really asking if she has a BF and she will have no reason to lie.

What you do from then on is up to you.
 

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SeymourCake said:
What do y'all think?
NEVER ask if they have a bf or are married. If they are off the market they'll let you know. And if you to blurt it out and ask there's a good chance you'll get the autopilot response they have one even if they don't.

I forget who said it, but it's pretty damn true:

"If you've got bad game they'll tell you they have a bf even if they don't. If you've got good game they'll hope you don't find out about him."
 

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When you make your move on her, she'll let you know. If she says she does, either you had weak game or just wasn't attractive or didn't have enough to offer. Translation; She's just not that into you.

If she's interested in you somehow, she'll make it known. If you got fame, looks, or are rich, or have a great job, and you ask her, it's highly likely she'll say she doesn't have a boyfriend. If you're not and you ask her, she'll tell you she does even if she actually doesn't.

Case closed.
 

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Aren't you the same guy that wanted to go around asking random girls to f*ck?
 

SeymourCake

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I don't know...Do we have the same username?
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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no disrespect
cake my man you need to read and not post so much because you need to take (IN=LET SOME OF THE PREVIOUS ADVICE SET IN) the whole being a dj thing its cool to ask question but not everyday there are other post that answer your question
but to answer your question you do not ask because it will come off as insecure=afc
if you have any question go to the search bar and type in what your looking trust me this forum has plenty of threads with just about any question
 
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