"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Is having brain fog part of getting older?

BackInTheGame78

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I haven't been able to think straight for months now and I feel like i dont exist sometimes. I feel empty like none of this is real. It feels like i have no thoughts. Its starting to scare me. Any thoughts on what this is or is this just getting older? I am 40 years old.
Do you have any old metal fillings? Had the same thing happen to me where I would have brain fog and sometimes would randomly slur words and turned out to be mercury poisoning from years and years of mercury leeching out of the filling every time you swallow or chew.

Got them replaced with BPA free composites and detoxed for a year and have never had the issue again
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Are you sleeping well?

It’s a good idea to have a sleep apnea test to make sure you’re getting enough quality sleep, in all stages.
I have sleep apena and go through this OP needs CPbab....does it work for me? honestly its helped 10%
 

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How do you sleep with that thing on your face. Im considering buying a CPAP machine.
I mean it's pretty easy. Very small mask, fits comfortably and the machine itself is silent. A fan in the room is 10 times louder than that. I literally would never sleep without it again.

Most important thing is to make sure you get the right sized mask.

Also people have a misconception that only overweight people have sleep apnea...completely not true.

Went for a physical several years ago and my primary looked down my throat and asked me if I snored and was tired when I woke up. I said those were both true and he said he figured and thought I had sleep apnea because the opening of my esophagus was not big enough for my neck size.

I was at 9% bodyfat at that time, jacked with abs. And I tested out as having severe sleep apnea.

Being overweight makes it more likely but it is not the only factor.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I snore so bad my wife turns on the radio to drown it out. I also have a 75% deviated septum (from what I'm told by the docs). I was going to have the operation when the 2nd wave rolled in.
 

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I haven't been able to think straight for months now and I feel like i dont exist sometimes. I feel empty like none of this is real. It feels like i have no thoughts. Its starting to scare me. Any thoughts on what this is or is this just getting older? I am 40 years old.
Candida possibly. Cut out all refined sugars.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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"Live for yourself - You will live in vain...Live for others - You will live again."
 

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I can imagine that. Time does move quickly.
I suggest living a life you can ENJOY and be HAPPY with every single day. Being a persistent "goal setter", can lead to one driving hard their entire life and NEVER enjoying the fruits of their labor. We should enjoy the fact that we are allowed to wake up each day and make our own choices. The food we put into our body and the things we allow in our mind.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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