Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Do you have any old metal fillings? Had the same thing happen to me where I would have brain fog and sometimes would randomly slur words and turned out to be mercury poisoning from years and years of mercury leeching out of the filling every time you swallow or chew.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
I have sleep apena and go through this OP needs CPbab....does it work for me? honestly its helped 10%
I do also...I have a BiPap and it has been amazingly effective for me.
How do you sleep with that thing on your face. Im considering buying a CPAP machine.
I mean it's pretty easy. Very small mask, fits comfortably and the machine itself is silent. A fan in the room is 10 times louder than that. I literally would never sleep without it again.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Candida possibly. Cut out all refined sugars.
You might have low testosterone.
Try a mouth guard 1st. It might help with the snoring.
It goes by quickly so make good use of the timeIndeed!
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
I can imagine that. Time does move quickly.
can you recommend one?
Neomen Professional Dental Guard is a good one.
I suggest living a life you can ENJOY and be HAPPY with every single day. Being a persistent "goal setter", can lead to one driving hard their entire life and NEVER enjoying the fruits of their labor. We should enjoy the fact that we are allowed to wake up each day and make our own choices. The food we put into our body and the things we allow in our mind.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
