Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Do you have any old metal fillings? Had the same thing happen to me where I would have brain fog and sometimes would randomly slur words and turned out to be mercury poisoning from years and years of mercury leeching out of the filling every time you swallow or chew.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
I have sleep apena and go through this OP needs CPbab....does it work for me? honestly its helped 10%
I do also...I have a BiPap and it has been amazingly effective for me.
How do you sleep with that thing on your face. Im considering buying a CPAP machine.
I mean it's pretty easy. Very small mask, fits comfortably and the machine itself is silent. A fan in the room is 10 times louder than that. I literally would never sleep without it again.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Candida possibly. Cut out all refined sugars.
You might have low testosterone.
Try a mouth guard 1st. It might help with the snoring.
It goes by quickly so make good use of the timeIndeed!
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
I can imagine that. Time does move quickly.
can you recommend one?
Neomen Professional Dental Guard is a good one.
I suggest living a life you can ENJOY and be HAPPY with every single day. Being a persistent "goal setter", can lead to one driving hard their entire life and NEVER enjoying the fruits of their labor. We should enjoy the fact that we are allowed to wake up each day and make our own choices. The food we put into our body and the things we allow in our mind.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
