"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Is having a mobile phone a sign you are not totally alpha?

iluvathar

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I mean where is the point, most of you guys saying you so alpha, the you use phone and facebook? I never had facebook, and thinking about dropping my phone in the river lol And I dont think asking a girl for her number is alpha behavior at all.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Demonicale

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iluvathar said:
I mean where is the point, most of you guys saying you so alpha, the you use phone and facebook? I never had facebook, and thinking about dropping my phone in the river lol And I dont think asking a girl for her number is alpha behavior at all.

Had to reply to this, this guy "get's it" ... i quit facebook as it's ****e and it's not alpha, it's pathetic and i hate that generation.

I've also felt the same about my phone, hate having it with me .. only reason i have it is i feel if i did'nt i might get into something and not have a way to contact someone lol.
 

TheException

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Ya i bet that makes making friends and making plans for you two so easy....must be using morse code.
 

Falcon

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Surely, you are only a true alpha if you beat her and drag her back to your cave. Cuz that's how real alphas rolled back in the day.
 

Demonicale

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TheException said:
Ya i bet that makes making friends and making plans for you two so easy....must be using morse code.

lmao!, i still use my phone, but morse code is something i'll now consider aswell :D
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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bukowski_merit

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Having electric isn't alpha either... So I'm calling the electric company and having that sh!t turned off.... Or better yet - im just going to rip down the power lines myself!

And after that, I'm going to sell my car and walk everywhere...

Yes baby, I'm so alpha...
 

Mr Wright

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Why is everyone so obsessed with being alpha, chill out and enjoy your life. Who cares who has done the most alpha thing?! Keep your phone, dont be stupid and just get on with your life...in London that's what we call just being a beg.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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zorg198

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you put too much thinking into this man - just enjoy your life, do what you like and that's it.
Joe.
 

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I hate social networking and I hate cell phones but they're the only way to stay in touch
 

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In fact it is very alpha when a woman see you talking about business in phone , I can bet some of them wet their panties at that moment especially if your face is serious and completely focus on the call .
 

Poonani Maker

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bukowski_merit said:
Having electric isn't alpha either... So I'm calling the electric company and having that sh!t turned off.... Or better yet - im just going to rip down the power lines myself!

And after that, I'm going to sell my car and walk everywhere...

Yes baby, I'm so alpha...
Having a MANual push mower on a quarter of an acre is mf'in Alpha. That's what I got. My neighbors think I'm Boss, but at the same time, a cheapo, I still drive the same little truck from 2002. They be leasing BMWs, stangs, and SUVs, due to the wives in the families, I believe.
 

iamnobody

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OP is spot on. I tossed my phone down the toilet and instantly turned into THE alpha male. I now have to wear a too-too so I don't come across as threatening to others.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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zinc4

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WTH is up with everyone's obsession with the word alpha??? it just sounds so lame
 

Dedication

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evan12 said:
In fact it is very alpha when a woman see you talking about business in phone , I can bet some of them wet their panties at that moment especially if your face is serious and completely focus on the call .
Wow, i agree with you. I never thought about it that way, by now that i look back from personal experience i can see it.

When i get work related calls its always because they want to know how to do something or what to do. So i'm usually explaining something elaborate and putting people to work. But now that i think about it, people around me, and especially women, react differently and its easier for me to talk to them.
 

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I'm going to go live in a cardboard box. Alpha's don't need a house.

Screw a computer as well, I'll just carve notes on trees....that way the next set of Alphas will have something to read.
 

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wow the amount of trolling n sarcasm in this thread is amazing. sooo funny
 

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Typing words to another man on a forum such as Sosuave is Beta and Gay!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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