I mean where is the point, most of you guys saying you so alpha, the you use phone and facebook? I never had facebook, and thinking about dropping my phone in the river lol And I dont think asking a girl for her number is alpha behavior at all.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Is having a mobile phone a sign you are not totally alpha?
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Demonicale
Senior Don Juan
iluvathar said:
Had to reply to this, this guy "get's it" ... i quit facebook as it's ****e and it's not alpha, it's pathetic and i hate that generation.
I've also felt the same about my phone, hate having it with me .. only reason i have it is i feel if i did'nt i might get into something and not have a way to contact someone lol.
TheException
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Ya i bet that makes making friends and making plans for you two so easy....must be using morse code.
Demonicale
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TheException said:
lmao!, i still use my phone, but morse code is something i'll now consider aswell
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
bukowski_merit
Master Don Juan
Having electric isn't alpha either... So I'm calling the electric company and having that sh!t turned off.... Or better yet - im just going to rip down the power lines myself!
And after that, I'm going to sell my car and walk everywhere...
Yes baby, I'm so alpha...
And after that, I'm going to sell my car and walk everywhere...
Yes baby, I'm so alpha...
Atom Smasher
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Am I ok with a steam engines?
Mike32ct
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There was a time when having a car phone was ultra alpha / high status lol.
They phased those out and gave us handheld cell/mobile phones to beta us (and better track our location lol).
They phased those out and gave us handheld cell/mobile phones to beta us (and better track our location lol).
Mr Wright
Master Don Juan
Why is everyone so obsessed with being alpha, chill out and enjoy your life. Who cares who has done the most alpha thing?! Keep your phone, dont be stupid and just get on with your life...in London that's what we call just being a beg.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Poonani Maker
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Having a MANual push mower on a quarter of an acre is mf'in Alpha. That's what I got. My neighbors think I'm Boss, but at the same time, a cheapo, I still drive the same little truck from 2002. They be leasing BMWs, stangs, and SUVs, due to the wives in the families, I believe.bukowski_merit said:
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Dedication
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Wow, i agree with you. I never thought about it that way, by now that i look back from personal experience i can see it.evan12 said:
When i get work related calls its always because they want to know how to do something or what to do. So i'm usually explaining something elaborate and putting people to work. But now that i think about it, people around me, and especially women, react differently and its easier for me to talk to them.
plate's_empty
Senior Don Juan
I'm going to go live in a cardboard box. Alpha's don't need a house.
Screw a computer as well, I'll just carve notes on trees....that way the next set of Alphas will have something to read.
Screw a computer as well, I'll just carve notes on trees....that way the next set of Alphas will have something to read.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.