Dhoulmagus
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Are you screwed if you don't
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Not necessarily, but the only way to pretty much guarantee you will see her again is by having sex on the first date...Dhoulmagus said:Are you screwed if you don't
^^THIS...Poon King said:Going for sex ASAP is definitely the best plan.
NO you are not screwed if you don't. BUT you save significant time and energy if you're dealing with a slut. Always a assume a woman is slutty until she proves otherwise. You'll be right surprisingly often.
I always go straight for the sex. Some women just let me smash them, while others slow down the process because they don't want to feel trashy.
But you are always wasting time when you just assume she is a "good girl" right off the bat and start being too accommodating. All that does is tell a woman she can get attention and support without having to sleep with you.. and so she will friend zone you like her other pathetic orbiters and go get pounded by a man who has more confidence.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.