Dhoulmagus
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Are you screwed if you don't
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Is getting sexual asap the best plan
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
RangerMIke
Master Don Juan
If you do not give a woman some indication that you want sex with her then she doesn't know what to do with you. She either likes you or she doesn't; she thinks of you as sexual or not. If she likes you but you don't make a move.... you are a friend... And once you are there it's difficult to get out. If she doesn't like you it doesn't matter.... but of she does not like you you can always turn that around, then fvck her later.
So why not make a move? Are you worried she won't like you? Who cares. Like I said if you make a move and she gets ticked just back off and ignore her.... come at her again later if you want. You really have nothing g to lose.
So why not make a move? Are you worried she won't like you? Who cares. Like I said if you make a move and she gets ticked just back off and ignore her.... come at her again later if you want. You really have nothing g to lose.
Going for sex ASAP is definitely the best plan.
NO you are not screwed if you don't. BUT you save significant time and energy if you're dealing with a slut. Always a assume a woman is slutty until she proves otherwise. You'll be right surprisingly often.
I always go straight for the sex. Some women just let me smash them, while others slow down the process because they don't want to feel trashy.
But you are always wasting time when you just assume she is a "good girl" right off the bat and start being too accommodating. All that does is tell a woman she can get attention and support without having to sleep with you.. and so she will friend zone you like her other pathetic orbiters and go get pounded by a man who has more confidence.
NO you are not screwed if you don't. BUT you save significant time and energy if you're dealing with a slut. Always a assume a woman is slutty until she proves otherwise. You'll be right surprisingly often.
I always go straight for the sex. Some women just let me smash them, while others slow down the process because they don't want to feel trashy.
But you are always wasting time when you just assume she is a "good girl" right off the bat and start being too accommodating. All that does is tell a woman she can get attention and support without having to sleep with you.. and so she will friend zone you like her other pathetic orbiters and go get pounded by a man who has more confidence.
KingBeef
Master Don Juan
^^THIS...Poon King said:
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
TheGambino
Master Don Juan
yes always