"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Is getting sexual asap the best plan

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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marmel75

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Dhoulmagus said:
Are you screwed if you don't
Not necessarily, but the only way to pretty much guarantee you will see her again is by having sex on the first date...
 

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If you do not give a woman some indication that you want sex with her then she doesn't know what to do with you. She either likes you or she doesn't; she thinks of you as sexual or not. If she likes you but you don't make a move.... you are a friend... And once you are there it's difficult to get out. If she doesn't like you it doesn't matter.... but of she does not like you you can always turn that around, then fvck her later.

So why not make a move? Are you worried she won't like you? Who cares. Like I said if you make a move and she gets ticked just back off and ignore her.... come at her again later if you want. You really have nothing g to lose.
 

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Going for sex ASAP is definitely the best plan.

NO you are not screwed if you don't. BUT you save significant time and energy if you're dealing with a slut. Always a assume a woman is slutty until she proves otherwise. You'll be right surprisingly often.

I always go straight for the sex. Some women just let me smash them, while others slow down the process because they don't want to feel trashy.

But you are always wasting time when you just assume she is a "good girl" right off the bat and start being too accommodating. All that does is tell a woman she can get attention and support without having to sleep with you.. and so she will friend zone you like her other pathetic orbiters and go get pounded by a man who has more confidence.
 

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Poon King said:
Going for sex ASAP is definitely the best plan.

NO you are not screwed if you don't. BUT you save significant time and energy if you're dealing with a slut. Always a assume a woman is slutty until she proves otherwise. You'll be right surprisingly often.

I always go straight for the sex. Some women just let me smash them, while others slow down the process because they don't want to feel trashy.

But you are always wasting time when you just assume she is a "good girl" right off the bat and start being too accommodating. All that does is tell a woman she can get attention and support without having to sleep with you.. and so she will friend zone you like her other pathetic orbiters and go get pounded by a man who has more confidence.
^^THIS... :up:
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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