Dhoulmagus
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Are you screwed if you don't
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Not necessarily, but the only way to pretty much guarantee you will see her again is by having sex on the first date...Dhoulmagus said:Are you screwed if you don't
^^THIS...Poon King said:Going for sex ASAP is definitely the best plan.
NO you are not screwed if you don't. BUT you save significant time and energy if you're dealing with a slut. Always a assume a woman is slutty until she proves otherwise. You'll be right surprisingly often.
I always go straight for the sex. Some women just let me smash them, while others slow down the process because they don't want to feel trashy.
But you are always wasting time when you just assume she is a "good girl" right off the bat and start being too accommodating. All that does is tell a woman she can get attention and support without having to sleep with you.. and so she will friend zone you like her other pathetic orbiters and go get pounded by a man who has more confidence.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.