Dhoulmagus
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Are you screwed if you don't
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Is getting sexual asap the best plan
- Thread starter Dhoulmagus
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
RangerMIke
Master Don Juan
If you do not give a woman some indication that you want sex with her then she doesn't know what to do with you. She either likes you or she doesn't; she thinks of you as sexual or not. If she likes you but you don't make a move.... you are a friend... And once you are there it's difficult to get out. If she doesn't like you it doesn't matter.... but of she does not like you you can always turn that around, then fvck her later.
So why not make a move? Are you worried she won't like you? Who cares. Like I said if you make a move and she gets ticked just back off and ignore her.... come at her again later if you want. You really have nothing g to lose.
So why not make a move? Are you worried she won't like you? Who cares. Like I said if you make a move and she gets ticked just back off and ignore her.... come at her again later if you want. You really have nothing g to lose.
Going for sex ASAP is definitely the best plan.
NO you are not screwed if you don't. BUT you save significant time and energy if you're dealing with a slut. Always a assume a woman is slutty until she proves otherwise. You'll be right surprisingly often.
I always go straight for the sex. Some women just let me smash them, while others slow down the process because they don't want to feel trashy.
But you are always wasting time when you just assume she is a "good girl" right off the bat and start being too accommodating. All that does is tell a woman she can get attention and support without having to sleep with you.. and so she will friend zone you like her other pathetic orbiters and go get pounded by a man who has more confidence.
NO you are not screwed if you don't. BUT you save significant time and energy if you're dealing with a slut. Always a assume a woman is slutty until she proves otherwise. You'll be right surprisingly often.
I always go straight for the sex. Some women just let me smash them, while others slow down the process because they don't want to feel trashy.
But you are always wasting time when you just assume she is a "good girl" right off the bat and start being too accommodating. All that does is tell a woman she can get attention and support without having to sleep with you.. and so she will friend zone you like her other pathetic orbiters and go get pounded by a man who has more confidence.
KingBeef
Master Don Juan
^^THIS...Poon King said:
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
TheGambino
Master Don Juan
yes always