lynch1000s
Don Juan
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It seems like it! :crackup:
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
I agree :rock:horaholic said:Why else would this forum even exist?
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Oh man i laughed hard at that one. To the OP, you kind of started this thread so that doesn't say much on your part. And some of us are actually just trying to better ourselves, i don't know about everyone else but it really helps me seeing that other guys are going through similar struggles.J. Darko said:Other guys are still discussing ''rules'' or the ''unfair power'' of ''feminists''. For those guys, there will be no mercy. They will die watching Starwars.
So more than 1/4th of the guys on this site get many girls?Sir Psycho Sexy said:id say 70% of us are stupid losers
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
About 90 percent of the guys here are virgins. Its sad. The saddest part is they refuse to listen to any good advice.lynch1000s said:So more than 1/4th of the guys on this site get many girls?
I'd say it's more like 95% of the people who post here are stupid losers, but yes, not everyone here is a loser![]()
Now i have to know how you got this number into your head.joe henny said:About 90 percent of the guys here are virgins. Its sad. The saddest part is they refuse to listen to any good advice.
I believe it was Maxtro who started a poll similar to this. With the ending result concluding there was more virgins than non-virgins here. I don't remember the exact number, but I believe it to be true. I'd even be willing to say that half of the "non-virgin" votes were also lies as well. So the number could be even smaller.Thundernuts said:Now i have to know how you got this number into your head.
What seems odd is you have been a member here for 5 looooong years and you have just been hit with an epiphany? I am wasting a post responding to this, but I think your significant other must have hacked your Sosuave account and posted this, no?lynch1000s said:It seems like it! :crackup:
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
yep and its called the 20/80 rule i thinkScars said:I believe it was Maxtro who started a poll similar to this. With the ending result concluding there was more virgins than non-virgins here. I don't remember the exact number, but I believe it to be true. I'd even be willing to say that half of the "non-virgin" votes were also lies as well. So the number could be even smaller.
Ever heard of the 20/90 ratio? It's the theory that %20 of the top males "have" %90 of all the females.
There's guys that just "get it" and then there's guys who simply don't. There really is no "in-between".
-Scars
Anything but!lynch1000s said:It seems like it! :crackup: