lynch1000s
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It seems like it! :crackup:
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Is everyone who posts on this message board a stupid loser, who can't get many women?
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
PapiChulo
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Yes sure, including you fuktard
lynch1000s
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I agree :rock:horaholic said:
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Yes pretty much. But you know, some guys are working on themselves, there might me hope.
Other guys are still discussing ''rules'' or the ''unfair power'' of ''feminists''. For those guys, there will be no mercy. They will die watching Starwars.
Other guys are still discussing ''rules'' or the ''unfair power'' of ''feminists''. For those guys, there will be no mercy. They will die watching Starwars.
Thundernuts
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Oh man i laughed hard at that one. To the OP, you kind of started this thread so that doesn't say much on your part. And some of us are actually just trying to better ourselves, i don't know about everyone else but it really helps me seeing that other guys are going through similar struggles.J. Darko said:
Sir Psycho Sexy
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id say 70% of us are stupid losers
lynch1000s
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So more than 1/4th of the guys on this site get many girls?Sir Psycho Sexy said:
I'd say it's more like 95% of the people who post here are stupid losers, but yes, not everyone here is a loser
PapiChulo
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Firts of all, the guy is a troll.
Second, it's not quantity, it's quality - I could be laying fatties and ugliest left and right, given I had nothing else to do.
Third, we are smart enough to do some research and find this site - so not all that stupid, arent we?
Second, it's not quantity, it's quality - I could be laying fatties and ugliest left and right, given I had nothing else to do.
Third, we are smart enough to do some research and find this site - so not all that stupid, arent we?
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
About 90 percent of the guys here are virgins. Its sad. The saddest part is they refuse to listen to any good advice.lynch1000s said:So more than 1/4th of the guys on this site get many girls?
I'd say it's more like 95% of the people who post here are stupid losers, but yes, not everyone here is a loser
Thundernuts
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Now i have to know how you got this number into your head.joe henny said:
Scars
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I believe it was Maxtro who started a poll similar to this. With the ending result concluding there was more virgins than non-virgins here. I don't remember the exact number, but I believe it to be true. I'd even be willing to say that half of the "non-virgin" votes were also lies as well. So the number could be even smaller.Thundernuts said:
Ever heard of the 20/90 ratio? It's the theory that %20 of the top males "have" %90 of all the females.
There's guys that just "get it" and then there's guys who simply don't. There really is no "in-between".
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SoldMySoul
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What seems odd is you have been a member here for 5 looooong years and you have just been hit with an epiphany? I am wasting a post responding to this, but I think your significant other must have hacked your Sosuave account and posted this, no?lynch1000s said:
You have enough time to write something so fvcking stupid, so what classification may we put you in sir?
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Anything but!lynch1000s said:
I came here about year and a half ago (lurked for a while) and even though I don't post much, I have been busy learning and applying many of the ideas and principles discussed. They don't all apply/suit my circumstances or sit with my basic personality/values well and I'll fully conceed that I'm nowhere near sorted in myself but I have made great strides all sorts of of ways.
I now have three women on the go and a few more on the way. Still including the one whose on/off behaviour brought me here looking for answers/understanding but she's not the one I'm now thinking-on as a possible prospect for something long term.
And I'm currently sizing-up a fourth, just because I can.
Thanks Sosuave.
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