"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Is everyone who posts on this message board a stupid loser, who can't get many women?

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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Why else would this forum even exist?
 

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Yes sure, including you fuktard
 

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I believe you just posted on this message board too, so...
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Yes pretty much. But you know, some guys are working on themselves, there might me hope.

Other guys are still discussing ''rules'' or the ''unfair power'' of ''feminists''. For those guys, there will be no mercy. They will die watching Starwars.
 

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J. Darko said:
Other guys are still discussing ''rules'' or the ''unfair power'' of ''feminists''. For those guys, there will be no mercy. They will die watching Starwars.
Oh man i laughed hard at that one. To the OP, you kind of started this thread so that doesn't say much on your part. And some of us are actually just trying to better ourselves, i don't know about everyone else but it really helps me seeing that other guys are going through similar struggles.
 

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Sir Psycho Sexy said:
id say 70% of us are stupid losers
So more than 1/4th of the guys on this site get many girls?

I'd say it's more like 95% of the people who post here are stupid losers, but yes, not everyone here is a loser :whistle:
 

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Firts of all, the guy is a troll.

Second, it's not quantity, it's quality - I could be laying fatties and ugliest left and right, given I had nothing else to do.

Third, we are smart enough to do some research and find this site - so not all that stupid, arent we?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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lynch1000s said:
So more than 1/4th of the guys on this site get many girls?

I'd say it's more like 95% of the people who post here are stupid losers, but yes, not everyone here is a loser :whistle:
About 90 percent of the guys here are virgins. Its sad. The saddest part is they refuse to listen to any good advice.
 

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About 90 percent of the guys here are virgins. Its sad. The saddest part is they refuse to listen to any good advice.
Now i have to know how you got this number into your head.
 

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Now i have to know how you got this number into your head.
I believe it was Maxtro who started a poll similar to this. With the ending result concluding there was more virgins than non-virgins here. I don't remember the exact number, but I believe it to be true. I'd even be willing to say that half of the "non-virgin" votes were also lies as well. So the number could be even smaller.

Ever heard of the 20/90 ratio? It's the theory that %20 of the top males "have" %90 of all the females.

There's guys that just "get it" and then there's guys who simply don't. There really is no "in-between".

-Scars
 

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I guess he posted here because he was too busy pulling women.
 

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lynch1000s said:
It seems like it! :crackup:
What seems odd is you have been a member here for 5 looooong years and you have just been hit with an epiphany? I am wasting a post responding to this, but I think your significant other must have hacked your Sosuave account and posted this, no?

You have enough time to write something so fvcking stupid, so what classification may we put you in sir?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Scars said:
I believe it was Maxtro who started a poll similar to this. With the ending result concluding there was more virgins than non-virgins here. I don't remember the exact number, but I believe it to be true. I'd even be willing to say that half of the "non-virgin" votes were also lies as well. So the number could be even smaller.

Ever heard of the 20/90 ratio? It's the theory that %20 of the top males "have" %90 of all the females.

There's guys that just "get it" and then there's guys who simply don't. There really is no "in-between".

-Scars
yep and its called the 20/80 rule i think
 

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lynch1000s said:
It seems like it! :crackup:
Anything but! :)

I came here about year and a half ago (lurked for a while) and even though I don't post much, I have been busy learning and applying many of the ideas and principles discussed. They don't all apply/suit my circumstances or sit with my basic personality/values well and I'll fully conceed that I'm nowhere near sorted in myself but I have made great strides all sorts of of ways.

I now have three women on the go and a few more on the way. Still including the one whose on/off behaviour brought me here looking for answers/understanding but she's not the one I'm now thinking-on as a possible prospect for something long term.

And I'm currently sizing-up a fourth, just because I can. ;)

Thanks Sosuave. :D
 
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